Grace will never get a regular job although it would probably help her health. You cant nap on a 9 to 5. She will take the freebies as long as she can. She would have to get an unskilled job (I don't mean that in a derogatory way to anyone) but she doesnt seem to be qualified in anything she could work at. She couldn't work as an MUA again on a counter unless she upskilled dramatically. I know someone said she has an arts degree but can't see her going in on a graduate programme. She mentioned midwifery before but she won't put in the absoljte slog required for that. So in ways she is stuck with it, I cant imagine you could live at their current lifestyle on krisps salary without all the freebies. She's still young, she should retrain and have her peace of mind.