Faces by Grace #2 Freebies by Grace

[Clangers2]

Hey guys 1st time posting
I couldn't sit by and not get this off my chest
Its actually really getting to me
I've unfollowed her today after that anxiety chat last night
I can't deal with her anymore now
I myself have been diagnosed with PND after my baby and have always been anxious
I remember being 12 and having insomnia
Then I had anxiety about the insomnia
So for over half my life I had suffered with mental health issues
I managed to go to college and get a good job and I am working away and earning good money but very stressful job
After my daughter was born I had a complete mental breakdown
I'm just going to explain this here cause what I'm seeing on her Instagram doesn't sit well with me or add up
Granted people have different types of anxiety and different symptoms
My daughter is 2 now and I'm only back to work
I am on high dose of an SSRI
I steer clear of xanax etc any of those downer drugs because they can be very dangerous long term
But when I've been depressed and anxious I cannot even eat, I can't talk, I can't concentrate, I can't watch TV I can't read a book
My mind has been 24/7 tormented
That is the only way I can describe it as
Torture
I've had cancer and gone through other difficult things in my life
And I would take cancer 50 times over a mental illness
It is the most completely debilitating most painful thing I've ever gone through
It doesn't switch on and off
I've had a handful of panic attacks too only a handful
And you would be so drained and so shook after them you'd not even be able to speak
And definitely not articulate or put your sales pitch voice on and 'create content'
Anxiety and depression or both together are not comparable with living normal
There is no way you can get up get dressed put on make up and go to an overwhelming event like a PR event
I feel ashamed to say this but she needs a kick up the hole
She cannot just switch that is not anxiety or depression
I don't know what's wrong with her but just to give a bit of an insight into what it's really like
I didn't leave my home for 15 months other than being forced to go to my GP CBT or forced to go for a walk with family
That is what depression and anxiety is like

Also
I haven't drank in 3 years
And would be afraid to
My consultant told me not to drink on or off tablets as it is the worst thing anyone can do
And I wouldn't take the risk because I'd be terrified to get sick again
That is how bad it gets

 

[Say what now!]

Irishgirl that was an unnecessarily cruel comment. She will be beautiful on her wedding day same as every other bride.

 

[Get off my chest]

Honestly I think if Grace got a regular job outside on her insta world that she had to get up and dressed and leave the house for shed feel a million times better. She started as a mua and now I dont know or think she knows who or what she is cause it's a middle of loads of diff content that doesnt relate or work together!
I often think some of the women we see blogging who are young dont know what to do unless they're full of big news such as weddings babys or buying a house its 2020 stop going backwards!!!



Imagine when the little one starts school and all the other mas knowing your business I'd not be able to cope!

She actually should get a job with dominique in the furniture shop.

She could sell sofas..sit on sofas..lie on sofas.. nap on sofas..

Would suit to a tee

 

[J.BFletcher]

When I had the WORST panic attacks of my life I couldn’t even feed or wash my self or make conversation with anyone. fair play to Grace I need to find out what medication she is on to give her such a quick turn around..

5mg of fresh air by the sea
2mg of taking pics of bees landing on flowers
A tonne of smelly seagull feathers to let you know that someone is watching over you!
Free Pizza, Antipasti cheesboards and a slap up pasta carbonara a la Kips!
1g of offloading house work to Anne and Mags! (Special prescription only)
5 bags of laundry sent out for washing and ironing.
Way too many cups of Nespresso a day. Any wonder she can’t sleep!
10mg of talking about her anxiety
An overdose of idiot followers asking her how she is and telling her she is so brave
Wash it all down with a litre of bullshit and you’re good to go!

 

[Beebles]

Call out bad practice, lazy work ethics, Deceit etc but no need to be calling anyone ugly or fat shaming either. Always write like that person is reading or what you’d say to their face. I’d call her lazy and unworthy of her job “entitlements” and I stand by my comments, but imagine googling your name and seeing a bunch of people calling you fat and ugly? It’s nasty with no need. All for constructive criticisms and discussions with a few light hearted jokes, leave physical appearances out of it

 

[Bishbashboom]

I can 100% tell you whst happened. She organised a photo shoot and crap for today in her home. Her house is a manky pigsty so she had to clean it and was on a time limit so she cried "anxiety" used the ma and sister as skivvies to clean her house so that it look insta presentable for the guests today. Shes the definition of a procrastinator. She says 100million things ( ie rewear be aware, the support group for mas that she ran away from, the park runs , the weight loss , the fitbit ) she says one thing and is too bone idle to complete the task. She isnt anxious or depressed shes a cluttered head like her cluttered house. Its so frustrating cos she makes people with genuine anxiety look like idiots cos i could never bounce back after a bad attack , especially if i had multiple in one day. Shes disgracebygrace

 

[PeaceAndPaws]

Ive had depression and anxiety for years. My depression started after the birth of my first. I didnt seek help. When i had my second, i was at breaking point and i got the help i needed. Just as i was getting my life together, i was diagnosed with cancer. I was terrified id hit rock bottom again but i stayed positive and got through the treatment i needed. Recovery took months but i still did what i could for the kids and the home. I set up a support group to help others through cancer. I didnt wallow in self pity, its just not me. Unfortunately my health has never recovered. I have several conditions and literally spend half my life in hospitals. These conditions make me so fatigued and in pain daily. I wont sugar coat it, it fucking sucks. Some days i have to admit defeat and go to bed. But i refused to let it define me. So at night i went to college. In 6 years ive gotten 2 BSc degrees and a post grad cert. this was extremely difficult with kids and shit health etc but it can be done! Id love to say things are good but they arent. Im currently awaiting scan results to see if my cancer has returned. Ive months of bladder treatment ahead of me too. Ive been so overwhelmed the last few weeks, its really affected my head, as you can imagine.

im telling this story to show that theres many of us out there, making the best of a shitty hand we were dealt. Grace has alot more resources and services handed to her, family close by- everything. Do i think she has MH issues? I think so, but her behaviour seems to exaggerate it massively. She needs to stop with the excuses. Its constant at this stage. No way could i clean wardrobes and then come online waffling away if i had several panic attacks - i dont know anyone who could?! I cant speak to anyone, i need to be alone. She needs to take responsibility of her life and grow up. Youre in your 30s with 2 healthy kids and a roof over your head, food on the table etc handle your shit like a grown woman and stop acting like a child and needing mammy and sis to do everything for you

 

[Bambi_on_ice]

Would you honestly leave your newborn baby with someone who only a couple of days ago claimed to have had the worst panic attacks?! Really?! Am I missing something? I don’t understand this at all!

 

[Princessdippy]

So glad she had a nice long talk with her doctor hopefully they prescribed some laxatives to get rid of the absolute shite she chats...... she is literally so so boring she's up and down there like a yoyo trying to clutch at whatever straws she can like today the worse day ever and her messages from her dad.... she did realise there was literally 1000 seagulls there....eejit

 

[Boredofinfluencergram]

OMG i'm flabbergasted after listening to that "interview". Herself and Twins & Me would want a big dose of reality. Be-kind.... More like be accountable over the fact that you are only on Instagram for freebies... what a parasite...

I find this “be kind” shite they spout to be so insulting. What they really mean is “be quiet, buy the constant utter shite I flog so I can keep my ‘job’ and if you dare question me even though I am blatantly lying/advertising falsely and incorrectly, you’ll be blocked and labelled a troll”.

a poster on another thread hit the nail on the head. They said where is the accountability for influencers pushing this unsustainable consumer lifestyle and where is their consideration for the effect it is that having on the younger generation. Those of us who are that bit older might be able to see through it and identify when we are being sold a lie, but what about those that are younger and easily influenced and vulnerable that believe they need new nasty gal clothes every other day , the latest tan etc etc. Do they ever stop to think how them “influencing” affects their followers mental health thinking they have to keep up with these lifestyles and sliding into debt Because of it. It’s disgusting and they should be utterly ashamed of themselves. Accountable my arse. They aren’t accountable for anything they post. These websites would not exist if influencers had an ounce of accountability.

apologies for the rant! I just worry so so much about the younger generation and those that are actually influenced by these people who don’t give a shit about anyone but themselves. It annoys me when they actually believe they are the victims!!!

 

[AnnaBananaPie]

I think it’s fairly safe to assume that at least one, if not several, people in Graces close circle of friends/family are reading this thread.

Her sister, sisters partner, some of Krisps’ mates, their girlfriends, some of her glossy Social Media girlos, her postman...

So I’m speaking directly to you

For the love of god- take the phone off her

She is commuting career suicide over here.

Get her off social media for a few weeks!

She clearly has issues, not the ones she thinks she has
but definitely issues around adulting & personal responsibility

She needs to take stock, cop on realise what’s she has and take it from there because currently she’s sinking all her own ships

 

[Beebles]

New thread suggestions:

Anxieheee by Grace
2 Dysons and 4 Fitbits by Grace
Naps by Grace
Couches by Grace
Scrounging by Grace
Exhausted by Grace

So many others I can think of but trying to #bekind

 

[Beebles]

Also she has Astro turf . I mean how fucking lazy can they both be - plastic grass

She’d still take a gifted lawnmower if it came her way

 

[Get off my chest]

How do you know? Has she said she is going to do deal for her wedding? Also, Instagram is part of her job. What do you think an influencer is?

That you grace hun ?

 

[Jembelle]

What sickened me about their interview was they said people wouldn’t say it to their faces. Yes actually I would I would say it and I would say it on your page also, but I know you both would block me and my comment would mean nothing

 

[storminagcup]

She's got mud on her face, big disgrace, getting dropped freebies all over the place

 

[Get off my chest]

I don't feel one bit sorry for her. As someone who has suffered with mental health while trying to hold down a very stressful job involving long hours and late night, I think she does people with anxiety or mental health issues a total disservice. We all cant take to the bed or to our coffee corners when the shit hits the fan. Her friend Jen is a single mother and she took the two kids out yesterday as well as her own little boy cos Grace needed a rest. Im sure Jen who doesnt have her childs father to help like Grace having krisps and who also works fulltime would love a bloody rest but I've never seen Greedy Grace rushing around to help her out. Grave would have been better off going for a walk and a chat with her friend and the kids than sitting in drinking coffee and inhaling the 500 diffusers. Does she not realise coffee is atrocious for anxiety etc.

Have to agree with you.. as someone who has been crippled with anxiety and depression to the point where I nearly gave up the fight... it angers me what I see from grace.. she actually said In her own words a while back that's she anxious about her house been messy cause she gets SO many press packages... that's what she was stressed about so then her and chris started to clean up and boom her anxiety was gone... I find it very hard to feel sorry for that..for not knowing where to put so much free stuff..... I have cried myself to sleep so many times wondering will I have enough money to feed my son... I dont cry for me cause I go without for him.. I go without make up for him... I work full time for him... I've no parents .. no partner... have a chronic illness .. so I genuinely have something to give out about... so I'm sorry but I just cant feel sorry for her .. when she has support in abundance .. a house... family. Gifted clothes.. gifted furniture.. gifted back garden... gifted coffee machine... gifted toasters... gifted kettles... gifted food... gifted nights away... beautiful kids .. no full time job to have leave the house for...

I'm sorry but I just cant feel sorry for her..


But as i said . Just my opinion xx

 

[Get off my chest]

The amount of verified stories I have about FBG I won’t get into them here, she was once asked to help a charity fund raiser by mentioning it on her story and maybe showing her face on the day.... she turned up with her family as if she was just a passer by, never mentioned anything on her page and before leaving marvellous mags asked how much are u being paid to promote this... it was a fuckin fundraiser they weren’t paying anyone anything ... she was gone after 5 mins.

You have verified stories but wont get into them here ? Da fuck ye doin on here so ?

 

[ElleHeezy1]

She donates to charity weekly apparently.

"I donate weekly to a charity very close to my heart. It's called Mo Phóca; it provides much needed monies for very hungry and very deep pockets located all around my home. I've linked a go fund me for Mo Phóca. Swipe up!"

 

[Irishmammy]

What station was she on?

Disney + because shes living in the land of make believe