I don’t really understand. It’s Grace’s Birthday. And instead of spending it with her family, husband, kids - breakfast in bed, homemade card, a shop bought cake. She chooses to spend money on a trip abroad with probably the only person who doesn’t appear to have as many commitments, and Grace carrys on like a carefree girl in her early 20s. She needn’t dare whinge about not having funds for a family holiday if she can throw away hundreds on a weekend break away for HERSELF.