I actually nearly cried reading this. What a horrible fucking person she is
This is so awful that I don’t even have words.
Agree with this. I actually think she probably still has PPD and it’s manifesting in her not being able to bond with Luella. She can’t seem to see that the way she feels about Luella is not normal, even with her having epilepsy.Erin has truly abandoned Lu. She’s written her off imo and Tom is her family now. She’ll have another child because she wanted 2 kids and Lu doesn’t ‘count’. I feel so awful for Luella. Despite her condition she knows her parents and I can’t imagine how it feels for her to have so little affection from her mother.
I’m so glad they found crystal so Lu can feel loved and cared for but disgusted that this is what it took for Lu to find someone who delights in her. You can tell Erin’s parents love Luella too, how do they all stand by and let her give up on her daughter? It’s revolting.
from her posts she clearly had pretty bad ppd after Luella but it feels like she blames Luella and her disability for that instead of recognising it and getting help.
I wouldn’t have had an issue with this part of her post if she’d followed it up by saying “if only I had done the same with Lu”. Isn’t that the more normal way to think? Lots of mums are more relaxed with their second babies and end up contact napping etc after being strict with their first babies because they think they are supposed to follow all the sleep training rules, but usually those mums end up feeling sad that they didn’t do the same with their first babies. I did contact nap and cosleep with my first but I know I regret that I got stressed out that I was doing the “wrong thing”. Erin seems to be more saying that she missed out on all that with Lulu because of Lulu.And what if Lu needs you
what if she wants to sleep on you.
no way you’d do that. FFSSSSS IM SO ANGRY
But she’s responded to a comment saying everyone is misinterpreting what she’s saidLike everyone else I’m just speechless. To say she hasn’t known unconditional love or enjoyed motherhood in all those years with that precious girl. She honestly just thinks she’s the only person who has ever had a tough situation and everyone else has a perfect instagrammable fairytale.
I can’t wrap my head around the positive comments, especially from mylifeoflove - this has made me lose so much respect for her.
No, she blocks. I’m blocked. Another woman commented how shocked she was that everyone else in the comments was supportive and enabling Erin on a particularly egregious post of hers and I replied simply “it’s shocking” and got blocked for it. She has a hair trigger for any scrutiny at all. She’s deeply disturbed.God forbid anyone called her out on that post, she’d unleash
I also suspect that Erin will put Lulu into full time care in a couple years time. She will say it is not fair on Tom (and any future perfect babies) to keep having their days "ruined".I had to have a break from Erin because I found myself really sad for Lulu. I only saw her latest post from another tattle thread so naturally I had to read it on Erins page. What the actual fuck is with the supportive comments ??? How can anyone read that & be like “ yass same “
Erin lives in fantasy land, does she think us other parents are just frolicking around the house naked skipping with our babies singing songs. She needs to pull her head out of her ass because these days are going to be easy compared to the days ahead of her if Lulu doesn’t get surgery but tbh I wouldn’t be surprised if she put Lulu in care when she’s no longer a toddler.
Erin needs EXTREME help..Lulu probably considers Chrystal her main care giver and ny heart breaks for when Chrystal no longer works with the family Lulu will be heart broken
100% for sure.I also suspect that Erin will put Lulu into full time care in a couple years time. She will say it is not fair on Tom (and any future perfect babies) to keep having their days "ruined".
Yep places like Allowah.Do you mean out of home care? Like, a group home? Do we even do that anymore? Gosh, I couldn't even imagine!
It’s gonna be a world of pain when she moves on. She’s a paid employee. This whole “this person is like family” is so dangerous.Hopefully they aren’t using their carer for unpaid labour. The way she’s worded that post seems like it might be 🫤 Very, very generously minding her.
She must. It wouldn’t surprise me if she offered to take Lulu unpaid today. It must be so hard not to be able to swoop in and give that little girl everything she’s missing.I wonder if Chrystal can see how fucked in the head Erin is.
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