If she was sole carer of Lu, not going out to lunch, not getting help or having her hair done I could understand how she would be exhausted and saying “our quality of life”
But it’s Lu’s quality!
To be fair, I think she was the sole carer until recently. It’s reasonable for her to have burnt out. I still agree with generally everything said here, but I do think Erin’s attitude around Luella has worsened in the last six months. Although she’s never been overly positive, prior to Crystal coming on board she did seem to play with Lu (albeit not at the park) a lot more, and was the primary carer.
I’m not defending her here or disagreeing with you, but as a mother of a medically very complex child I will say when the child’s quality of life is poor the entire family suffers. And whether it’s my medically complex child or my healthy typical child who is under the weather, or struggling in some way, I would say as the mum I feel all of their pain and suffering too. Hope that makes sense
But you’re right she’s self centred and complete narc
Yes, this! There’s so much I’m critical of with Erin, so I’m not defending her, either, but if my child was suffering acutely for much of the time, I’d struggle to say I had quality of life, too.
Looks like Krystal at the sink doing dishes while she whinges on the lounge about being so sleep deprived
She does have a young baby. Again, Erin bothers me greatly, but I don’t think it’s necessary to act like mums with young kids shouldn’t have help with housework, if it’s possible. The crux of the issue is that she’s depriving Lu of the surgery.
. Interested to see her response
