It’s barely more than a mouthful anyway! Ffs just eat the damn thing or ask for it without. So wasteful!"I was good and only had a small taste of the coleslaw"
Is she serious?
This whole “set things up for them” is used by a lot of “insta mums” and it just makes your life a misery! Not letting kids get bored and use their imagination means you will forever be thinking of ways to entertain them! They need to learn how to entertain themselves then life as a parent is just a bit easier! She really is a fun sponge. Let them chose their own entertainment!How about just let them play?
I have a 3 year old and a 10 month old at home all day long every day and they play... I don't have to spend every day figuring out how to keep them entertained.
This is what happens when you set up play constantly and don't let James use his imagination. He doesn't know how to play on his own.
Also.. "I had a jacket potato so I'm too full for chips"
Pleaseeeeshe had 1 potato 6 hours ago with some cheese.
Her nappy changes must take forever because she apparently has dry cracked hands from constantly nappy changingNo Emma, you are a control freak. even before Hattie you planned James’ toys. Obviously before Hattie, James didn’t get enough ‘attention’ either, as you say. If he wants to Play trains all day then so be it. Maybe bring some toys to the top of the toy box for rotation but let his imagination run. When you’re feeding Hattie, that’s sit down quietly and watch TV time. Nappy changes are two minute jobs, why do you need to have him occupied for that? He can sort himself. Oh wait he doesn’t know how to because you’ve controlled and still control everything in his life thus far.
Edit: even better, get him involved in feeds and nappy change. Real life role play. Oh wait, you won’t be in full control because someone else will be taking charge of something you want to own.
The things she comes out with she's honestly on another planet!Her nappy changes must take forever because she apparently has dry cracked hands from constantly nappy changing
3 kids and I've never had dry cracked hands from changing nappies
Me neither!Her nappy changes must take forever because she apparently has dry cracked hands from constantly nappy changing
3 kids and I've never had dry cracked hands from changing nappies
Totally agree. God I know some days are hard (mine are 3, 18 months and 6 months) but I just don't understand why EVERY SINGLE DAY is such a struggle with her being alone with 2 kidsShe says she does it she enjoys watching them play? She moans daily how much of a struggle she finds it! She really needs to read back what she writes on the daily because it comes across as she would rather be anywhere else then at home with her two children. Iv been a SAHM for 9 years and never found it as hard as she has. Not saying it isn’t hard, of course it is! But she literally finds the most negative things from each day and makes a massive deal about it. Kids are allowed to have a tantrum too, it helps them explore their emotions and kids need to learn they don’t get our attention 24/7 if something else takes priority ie another child needs a nappy change. They need to learn to be independent even if just for a few minutes! Hate people who do all they can to avoid a tantrum, that’s just giving into the child surely?!
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