Thank you
We did! We celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary last year.
Also, I want to add that when I returned to my ex's house a week later to gather the rest of my belongings, his work colleague had moved in and set herself up very comfortably. In his bed! So, I am not justifying my actions but looking back it's clear that he had been engaging in an emotional (and possibly physical) affair too.
Is cheating wrong? Yes. Did I go through major psychological torment over what I'd done? Yes. Would I do it again? No. Am I scum? No.
Do you have children, siblings, friends
@BettyCrockerr? What would you do if they came to you with a story like my own? Would you straight up label them scum and begin denigrating them the way you have me and others here? I pity you that your world view is so limited that you can only reply with condescension and ridicule. You can be critical of my actions, but to call me and anyone else honest enough to own their mistakes and share them scum is very low.