she is always acting so tired & run down during the week, blames the kids & how hectic she works during the day, yet has a whole weekend free of the kids & chooses to go out all weekend, feasting, drinking & dancing getting home at all hours. Why would you not try to relax at home, wind down, rest while you can. Do some tidy up at home, lord knows it needs it, get some groceries and meal prep some lunches for the kids and have it all nice for when they get home.
I am lucky that I have a supportive husband who helps with our 2 kids, so I don’t pretend to know how hard it would be during the week for her, but seems like she bungs it on to me.