I think the thing is with the mother passing date. Her ‘real’ friends probably don’t even remember the exact date, who does? You can’t remember every date like that.
Whereas she said lots of her followers messaged her, but that’s because she put on her Instagram about it so it was the forefront of their mind.
Again, it’s her being quite passive aggressive about it. I’m sure if she told friends she needed someone to speak to or wanted to go out and take her mind off of it then they would have been there.
She comes across as one of those people that just assumes you’ll know that your down or need someone to speak to. Reach out to people if you do, don’t sit and stew in it winding yourself up even more. I know this because I have friends who do the same and it’s like ‘why didn’t you just tell me and you wouldn’t have then had to get upset’ type thing.
From reading some old posts of her, the passive aggressiveness doesn’t seem to be a new thing and something she should work on, as eventually it will just alienate friends.