It seems that he has no interest in being with her long term,its all very much a relationship on his terms and she goes running to wherever he is.he never comes to her.he prob doesnt want to be around her family as its awkward if they ask questions and he likes people who dont challenge him.obv i dont know for a fact but i had a relationship just like this and i can only imagine the kind of things he might say,’other people just dont get us’, ‘im so glad your mature and we can do our own things and your not needy’, ‘everyone needs their space but its so good we’re on the same page’ ie, convincing her this is the way she wants things to be too and making her feel she needs to act really grown up about it and not throw any tantrums or emotions at it. She seemed to have more personality before and not be so serious so you wonder whats her suddenly act so middle aged. I think its really concerning and I hope she walks away from this soon.she really could find someone who would adore her and wants to be part of her life and wants to spend time her family and come for dinner on a sunday,you know,the normal things people do for those they want to be with