I think she has this dream of what she wants to be like but it’s so far from reality. She wants to be soccer mom babe, slim blonde, big boobs all sexy, living the American dream in San Diego but real Elle likes being in her Pjs, drinking tea and choccie digestives, cosy jumpers, log fires in country pubs, garden centres and Bath. She also likes to be with her family and her friends. I genuinely think it was an itch Connor wanted to scratch ( and her) but they should have done it years ago without kids and without dogs. They may even have settled there then. If this was truly the plan for so many years as she says, why would you not get trained in a career you know would get you in and secure yourself a job there? That is the only way I’d move abroad with young kids.