Elle Darby #2 not to be confused with Gemma Louise Miles.
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When Connor becomes even more "insta famous" in his own right he will dump her. I bet there are loads of desperate tramps sliding into his inbox and he is lapping it up. He's gone a right big headed prick. It will only get worse. He's unrecognisable since the early days.
And on another note, why is it always men who think women should look and act like porn stars, who then turn out to be two jerk squirts? Sack him off Elle!
And on another note, why is it always men who think women should look and act like porn stars, who then turn out to be two jerk squirts? Sack him off Elle!
Especially after she had just uploaded a video saying she wasnt happy with her body at the moment
He could of picked one of the numerous glowy natural pics from this year but no the one of her years ago looking like a glamour model you could tell she looked sad, bless her
Personally I think she looks better with abit of weight on
Me too she's gorgeous, it's a shame she has to put up with him
he's such a poser, most of their pics together shes staring at him lovingly and hes just posing (probably thinking how good looking he is
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A guy like “conn” is the last thing that Elle needs right now. She needs unwavering love and support, not some immature tool who is clearly only interested in looks and how much things cost. Such an empty shallow life
I’m sure at the moment Elle is just craving the comfort and unconditional love her mother provided. It’s really very sad how this guy treats her like a commodity, I think it’s very Obvious this isn’t a deep love for a lifetime. It’s all for social media and likes. That relationship will only push her sense of self worth down further, until the day she wakes up and dumps his sorry ass and focuses on herself. If Elle is reading this I do hope she really assesses her life following her mums death, including the types of people her mum would want her to be with. I don’t think any mum watching that Q&A or his Instagram posts would be happy if their daughter settled for that 
On another note I would sooner die than bring a “man” like Connor or Jordan home to meet my dad or brother
I’d never hear the end of it if I did. how embarrassing 
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Couldn't agree more, I think she's really hanging all her hopes on them getting engage though she talks about it none stop, feel like he would do it just for the cloutA guy like “conn” is the last thing that Elle needs right now. She needs unwavering love and support, not some immature tool who is clearly only interested in looks and how much things cost. Such an empty shallow life
I feel like he’s been like this for a long time, with the rude undermining comments. When she went off fitness he was always making remarks about the food she chose to eat... Also, does anyone remember the vlog (think it’s deleted now) in jan last year when she got these (interesting) jaw fillers and as soon as Connor saw her he said ‘it’s not gonna stay like that is it?!’ 
She looked so gutted after that
She looked so gutted after that
I didnt understand his line about getting engaged saying waiting until they had enough to afford a wedding before he proposed, dont try to kid us Con we know you wouldnt pay a penny for the wedding and expect Elle to pay for it all, even down to her own ring. If there wasnt already visible to everyone Con has displayed some massive red flags as of recently and Elle needs to speak to a charity or someone to help her get away from this pig.
Im really struggling to see what Elle sees in him and what he brings to the relationship:
-he isn’t affectionate and she’s had to pull him up over it before now (she said so in the vid)
-he thinks it’s okay to watch porn every few weeks and that there’s no harm in liking other women’s bikini pics (said on the vid)
-he thinks it’s normal to constantly post posing photos like he’s some sort of model and to objectify the post worker
-he scrounges off Elle and doesn’t have a real job
-she gets him amazing holidays for his birthday and she gets...
-he leaves her on holiday to go drink
if anyone has picked up on any positives then feel free to add, because from watching them I don’t see any positives from his side.
-he isn’t affectionate and she’s had to pull him up over it before now (she said so in the vid)
-he thinks it’s okay to watch porn every few weeks and that there’s no harm in liking other women’s bikini pics (said on the vid)
-he thinks it’s normal to constantly post posing photos like he’s some sort of model and to objectify the post worker
-he scrounges off Elle and doesn’t have a real job
-she gets him amazing holidays for his birthday and she gets...
-he leaves her on holiday to go drink
if anyone has picked up on any positives then feel free to add, because from watching them I don’t see any positives from his side.
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he didnt want to contribute to the first flat Elle rented and at one point was not going to move in with her, no doubt until she agreed to foot the bill
I just watched the video and feel that's it's a really unhealthy relationship.
She is looking at him almost like she is wanting to know some of the answers for herself.
I am not sure if this is just me (being a 30 year old married mum of two) but I dont actually look at other mens pics and like them? Most of that is because I'm in a happy relationship I don't feel the need to be liking `Zac Efron` topless?
Yes I can appreciate good looking guys and nice bodies on insta but I tend to like things which mean something not just another guy flaunting a 6 pack
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She is looking at him almost like she is wanting to know some of the answers for herself.
I am not sure if this is just me (being a 30 year old married mum of two) but I dont actually look at other mens pics and like them? Most of that is because I'm in a happy relationship I don't feel the need to be liking `Zac Efron` topless?
Yes I can appreciate good looking guys and nice bodies on insta but I tend to like things which mean something not just another guy flaunting a 6 pack
.I feel like I can see a lot of my younger self in Elle these days. I was with my ex from the age of 16 until 28. I blindly thought the relationship was wonderful, because I was so young getting into it, I had no life experience to compare it to. I thought it was how relationships worked.
It wasn't until he cheated on me 2 months before we were due to get married, and I left him, that I realised how awful the relationship was. We never did what I wanted to do, he undermined my opinion on a lot of things, and he turned my personal problems back on myself if I didn't "include" him. Example, I finally opened up to him about my anxiety after I went to the doctor's, talked it out, got some medication and finally understood what was going on in my mind. He got pissed because I didn't tell him I was going to the doctor's.
3 years later, I'm living with my now boyfriend and I couldn't be happier. He treats me with absolute respect and cares for me, puts my happiness just as high as his, and is there for me no matter what.
I like Elle, I do think she has changed recently, but who doesn't. I hope she eventually sees that Con isn't all she thinks and either gets him to step up or realises she's worth more
It wasn't until he cheated on me 2 months before we were due to get married, and I left him, that I realised how awful the relationship was. We never did what I wanted to do, he undermined my opinion on a lot of things, and he turned my personal problems back on myself if I didn't "include" him. Example, I finally opened up to him about my anxiety after I went to the doctor's, talked it out, got some medication and finally understood what was going on in my mind. He got pissed because I didn't tell him I was going to the doctor's.
3 years later, I'm living with my now boyfriend and I couldn't be happier. He treats me with absolute respect and cares for me, puts my happiness just as high as his, and is there for me no matter what.
I like Elle, I do think she has changed recently, but who doesn't. I hope she eventually sees that Con isn't all she thinks and either gets him to step up or realises she's worth more
That’s really good that you found the strength to leave and find something better, it takes a lot to make a big change like that into the unknown, glad you’re happy now.
my friend is in a similar ish situation, she’s been with her first boyfriend for a few years and they have a child together, he has BPD and she won’t leave him because she says everything he does wrong is because of BPD and it isn’t his fault. Like he kicked her out once when she was 7 months pregnant, he flys into rages for no reason and disappears with her car, leaving her stranded with a baby and is just generally very nasty to her sometimes.
It’s awful to see people trapped in unhappy relationships, especially when you have a good relationship yourself (I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we are good) I feel so sorry for Elle, I wish she would open her eyes to what a greasy creepy scrounger he is.
Oh great a video with James and Carys, that’s going to be painful to watch 
get ready for the drunken “angels” not letting each other get a word in edge ways!
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a vlog popped up after someone else’s so I watched a couple and my husband said who is this annoying creature and said we should take a shot each time she said connnnnnnn but then soon realised we would be tit faced within 10 minutes!!!!
a vlog popped up after someone else’s so I watched a couple and my husband said who is this annoying creature and said we should take a shot each time she said connnnnnnn but then soon realised we would be tit faced within 10 minutes!!!!Our besties Im sure she's met meg a handful of times! Connor always likes her bikini picsOh great a video with James and Carys, that’s going to be painful to watch
Only just got round to watching this video and it made me feel sick. Been with my boyfriend nearly 3 years and he wouldn’t care in slightest if I’d shaved or not, what underwear I wear, if I fart in front of him etc because it’s my body and I can do as I please and we’re open with eachother. It is so so immature for a ‘man’ of nearly 30 to actually care about these things. Honestly everything about Connor screaaams toxic masculinity and if I was her I’d be embarrassed to post that, but she’s so blinded by it she thinks it’s normal bless her. Also shocked me that he picked that photo of her from 2 years ago!! I had to double take I didn’t even realise it was her, I’d have been gutted if I was her as she doesn’t even look anything like that nowI hate Connor. I think Elle actually seems nice but him...Their latest videos about he doesn’t like when she farts or when she wears underwear that’s not sexy. And it’s fine to like bikini pics of other girls.. and she asked which pic of her he would show his friends. He Pulls out an old one of her wearing a red bikini not even looking like she looks now... all this and he’s DISGUSTING! Slimy and not to mention how thick he is...or ‘Fick’ as he would pronounce it. Vom.
I’ve genuinely wondered this from her start, she’s mentioned in a few videos how in a period of her life she was so obsessed with her weight and looking back she wishes she didn’t have such an unhealthy relationship with her weight.. from what I can see of Connor he seems like the type that would make comments about her weight because he’s so obsessed with gym and fitness, maybe he’s the reason she did have such an awful relationship with food and her weight because if you look back on her old videos she was totally obsessed
New drinking game, drink every time Elle or Gemma says the words "grab your snacks", "get cosy", "get your cup of tea"Oh great a video with James and Carys, that’s going to be painful to watch
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