I'm 22 weeks! Totally agree, it took me 12 cycles to get here and that includes losses, I don't think getting a pregnant after your first period when coming off the pill is a "TTC journey".
Elle Darby #10 she's up the duff, they're in the buff, Angellessss just can't get enough
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I wonder where Connor was when she was sat on the swing outside, he could have easily looked out the window and seen her with the tests hmm, unless he did an early morning gym session/walking the dogs
She probs did it when he was at the gym so she could tell him separately
‘My ttc journey’ jeez this is barely a ttc journey, it’s worse than carys calling it that when it took her 3 months to get pregnant. So insulting to the women/couples who have taken a lot longer to get pregnant or to those that could still be on their ttc journey. Of course I’m happy for her but it’s just insensitive imo, and her talking about the pressure to get pregnant... no one was pressuring you
It’s the exact same as Carys! She made a massive deal about it and kept saying their journey had been so hard, yet they’d only been trying a couple months before she fell pregnant. So ignorant to those who actually struggle to conceive.
I don't understand their obsession with TTC, it takes most healthy young couples up to a year to concieve so doing it in a month or 3 is a very good result?
I don’t think Elle has actually said they struggled at all? Just that she was worried she would
You're not alone!I really really wish influencers would not share how long it took them to conceive. I am currently going through ttc and listening to her say it take her first proper period to get pregnant has made my heart just sink.
I gave her the benefit of the doubt that maybe she'd been trying longer than Carys or, if she hadn't, she wouldn't refer to it as a 'TTC journey' but NOPE! They're bloody clueless!Just watched today’s vid, as someone that actually does like Elle, I find it really difficult to listen to someone talk about ‘TTC’ pressure or their journey that literally started in August... Feel like it’s insensitive to those of us that know that disappointment month in and month out
I agree, her and Carys were the same, came off the pill and fell pregnant very quickly yet act like it's taken years. I'm sure to them it felt like a long time but surely they're aware that some people try for years and years with no success
Both of them seemed to be in such a rush to get pregnant, taking ovulation tests and having sex at the prime moment. Of course, everyone is different, but they were young and had recently come off birth control, what was the need to put so much pressure on themselves? Most people I know at there age just stop birth control and see what happens for the few months. Theres always such a rush nowadays to do everything as soon as possible.
It just shows that Elle has no real consideration for her viewers and what they might be going through, her followers are only there for her to make money from them.
This is exactly me! I know the disappointment every single month and the fear that I can’t have children is the worst pain in the world. Don’t get me wrong I’m so incredibly happy for her, but seeing her being all ‘hey look at me I’m pregnant’ after just a couple months then hear the words “TTC journey” is just insulting. No regard for anyone else it’s all about them.
influencers are used to having everything they want straight away.
Having to wait just one cycle was too much for them.
it’s takes a while for hormones from contraception to fully leave your system so it was barely a journey for them. They stopped taking the pill and got pregnant almost straight away
Yep, instant gratification. They have money, so they get what they want when they want and then they want to try and apply that to everything in their lives. It’s sad to be honest, watching young healthy women tear themselves apart over getting pregnant as quickly as possible, instead of taking things as they come and enjoying the moment. I can’t imagine what Elle would have been like if it had taken her longer to get pregnant.
Take a shot every time she used the word pregnant...don’t you will die 
or maybe a maternity/kids clothes with james and carys line? Dunno what it’s called
YAE x angelle.... it would be the most overpriced, cheapest tit everor maybe a maternity/kids clothes with james and carys line? Dunno what it’s called
Never have I seen any "regular" or "common" people talk about TTC on social media because us normal people realise that it's not necessary to discuss. Seeing pregnancy announcements can be difficult enough for people who have been trying for so so long (yes they will be happy for that person but, it's difficult nonetheless) without then hearing how long it took them to conceive especially if it was very quick.
I don't get why Carys and Elle think it's necessary. If either had really struggled for a long long time I could understand wanting to talk about it because it then may help those in a similar situation. However I think it's just in a way a show off or superiority thing that because they didn't take long they want to air that on their YouTube and emphasise it when really not many people will be able to relate to their "journey" and will find it more insensitive than anything else.
I don't get why Carys and Elle think it's necessary. If either had really struggled for a long long time I could understand wanting to talk about it because it then may help those in a similar situation. However I think it's just in a way a show off or superiority thing that because they didn't take long they want to air that on their YouTube and emphasise it when really not many people will be able to relate to their "journey" and will find it more insensitive than anything else.
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