Just putting it out there... I know of so many men (and women) who just use tinder for sex. And to the other poster so what if he's net some girls at s bar and got with them?! That's what 20-30 something's do....
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veevee04
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Dr Alex should do 12.5 hour shifts a day in a mental health ward. Ridiculously short staffed being stuck on observations for hours because there isn't enough staff to swap and you are desperate for a wee and a drink. Having to restrain someone headbanging, using ligature knives constantly, becoming desensitised to some of the most horrible things a human can see. Trying to convince someone who's catatonic and severely depressed to get out of the bed and use the toilet and eat as you are breaking your back everytime you change them but there's no beds available to move them on and the service won't purchase a proper bed. Then having to forcibly wash people because they neglect their hygiene so much and get infections. Over sedating someone because you don't have a seclusion suite and they are smashing up the ward , the police won't take them because they are in a safe place but there's no beds in more secure services.
It's definitely not the singing kumbaya and holding hands like Dr Alex makes out.
He purchased 4 holiday cottages and promoting dodgy clinics abroad. He doesn't give a shit about patients just making money.
It's definitely not the singing kumbaya and holding hands like Dr Alex makes out.
He purchased 4 holiday cottages and promoting dodgy clinics abroad. He doesn't give a shit about patients just making money.
StephenTJackson
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It just feels like clout chasing. Trying to make someone look bad for not even doing anything wrong.
Like the young woman who chatted with Matthew Perry before "exposing" the messages, in spite of him doing precisely nothing wrong.
As someone who suffers from an often misunderstood mental health condition, I used to be quite ashamed to admit I did and I was quite pleased when I saw Alex's post your pill campaign. I thought it was a good idea to help tackle the stigma around mental health. I admired him as well for seeming as though he was genuinely trying to help mental health issues.
However this last week or two, I'd started to go off him after seeing the article where he was spotted not wearing a mask on his Emirates flight, despite it being mandatory, everyone else wearing one and him being a bloody Dr that had been speaking about the importance of waring one all pandemic. The nail in the coffin was seeing The Sun's (forgive me) snapchat story talking about his serial cheating on Ellie.
He portrays this mr nice guy image and it really, really isn't him behind closed doors it seems. On top of that, he seems to just be going fully down the influencer route and on the beg for a new kitchen etc which, given the rising cost of living, I find absolutely appalling and completely out of touch. I'm sick of seeing him showing freebie after freebie now.
He's completely fake and no better than the rest of them. I feel sorry for him for the loss of his brother, but it doesn't give him the excuse to be a not very nice person.
However this last week or two, I'd started to go off him after seeing the article where he was spotted not wearing a mask on his Emirates flight, despite it being mandatory, everyone else wearing one and him being a bloody Dr that had been speaking about the importance of waring one all pandemic. The nail in the coffin was seeing The Sun's (forgive me) snapchat story talking about his serial cheating on Ellie.
He portrays this mr nice guy image and it really, really isn't him behind closed doors it seems. On top of that, he seems to just be going fully down the influencer route and on the beg for a new kitchen etc which, given the rising cost of living, I find absolutely appalling and completely out of touch. I'm sick of seeing him showing freebie after freebie now.
He's completely fake and no better than the rest of them. I feel sorry for him for the loss of his brother, but it doesn't give him the excuse to be a not very nice person.
getmeoutofhere
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Wise not to be a cheating rat too. You can’t just get the publicity when and if that suits you AlexHe put this on his Instagram story
PineappleQueen19
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Let’s pretend for a second that it’s not been engineered for attention/income:
If his drinking is so out of control he’s blowing a grand a month on booze and related costs - to the point it is a problem he feels needs addressing by stopping - then he shouldn’t have been advising others about mental health for years without at least mentioning his demons. So what else is he hiding? It’s disingenuous at best.
Your own mental doesn’t have to be perfect to help others (no one’s is, of course) but if you have a problem as serious as he is now claiming then pass the mic to someone better placed and get help for yourself. There’s no lucrative income in doing it that way though
It’s all nonsense anyway, even if he did spend a grand it was probably one month - eg probably just had a lot of parties in December and overindulged like many and is now jumping on the Dry January bandwagon to keep himself relevant.
This is the guy who sold his grief story about the loss of a family member to the highest bidder - Lululemon - and sells cheap bath bombs with a ridiculous markup under the guise of mental health / wellbeing with a medicalised brand name. And let’s not forget Alex is turning long term rental properties (ie affordable housing for local residents) into short term holiday lets for maximum profit. And lied about how he acquired the properties. Believe people when they show you over & over who they are.
If his drinking is so out of control he’s blowing a grand a month on booze and related costs - to the point it is a problem he feels needs addressing by stopping - then he shouldn’t have been advising others about mental health for years without at least mentioning his demons. So what else is he hiding? It’s disingenuous at best.
Your own mental doesn’t have to be perfect to help others (no one’s is, of course) but if you have a problem as serious as he is now claiming then pass the mic to someone better placed and get help for yourself. There’s no lucrative income in doing it that way though
It’s all nonsense anyway, even if he did spend a grand it was probably one month - eg probably just had a lot of parties in December and overindulged like many and is now jumping on the Dry January bandwagon to keep himself relevant.
This is the guy who sold his grief story about the loss of a family member to the highest bidder - Lululemon - and sells cheap bath bombs with a ridiculous markup under the guise of mental health / wellbeing with a medicalised brand name. And let’s not forget Alex is turning long term rental properties (ie affordable housing for local residents) into short term holiday lets for maximum profit. And lied about how he acquired the properties. Believe people when they show you over & over who they are.
butterfliesandhurricanes
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disappointing. I absolutely hate this type of post. Just because you have a large online following why should you get everything for free? This is so tone deaf I actually thought he was a little bit more down to Earth than other influencers but clearly not.
Skyflier6727
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It’s always the ones shouting “be kind” from the rooftops that are the biggest arseholes. Not very kind to sext someone behind your girlfriends back. Knob
Skyflier6727
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My hubby is a doctor (I’m not medical at all) but I agree with you. Most marry young and stay married to other doctors or are aged lotharios shagging every nurse or junior doctor that breathes!!
Hayley2349
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He’s one of the worst influencers out there in my opinion. Hides behind this fake good guy act, but it’s all an act to still receive influencer benefits. I really do empathise with what happened to his brother. The same thing happened to my sister two months after. It’s the fact he’s used mental health as a pretence to become an influencer, and try to act like he’s better than any other influencer because of his “mental health” work. He will never know the struggles of choosing between bills and food, having to not eat because you have to feed your kids. I work 40+ hours a week and I am struggling to provide for my family. He’s a complete hypocrite for saying “be kind” whilst swanning off on another gifted holiday and sitting in his gifted 5 star apartment.
Skyflier6727
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I used to really like him but he’s getting a bit big headed and “all for the gram”. Whilst it was so lovely he bought his mum her dream car did he really need to plaster him giving it to her (and her crying) all over Insta and You tube? By all means do it but making it so public left a nasty taste
imsohungry
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Positive mental health and then “look at this dyson hoover, you should buy one” don’t mix well for me. Plus he has his GP job, the number 10 job and his bath product business. Does he really need to sacrifice the authenticity of his message for ads? But greedy really!
aidil
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Wow there was me popping propranolol when all I needed was a good bubble bath!
ChilliBean
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You will be single forever because you were publically outed as a dirty cheating rat
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RonnieBlessHim
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PineappleQueen19
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As a very minor plus, it’s useful to have a real life example of how the Nice Guy™ persona plays out - like a lot of us spotted this from the start but look how many get sucked in. It must be genuinely useful for parents of teenagers to be able to talk through the toxicity and to trust your instincts? Thank you Alex and Hugo I guess
Even better they are a doctor and a teacher - two professions with high trust scores. Assholes are everywhere.
Even better they are a doctor and a teacher - two professions with high trust scores. Assholes are everywhere.
Swipeupyouguys
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Not surprised. Likes a steady supply of adoration and social acceptance in having a gf but on constantly looking for upgrades. Cruel.
He seemingly can do no wrong in most people's eyes being a doctor, and a tall one at that but, there is something about him that is (to me) a little unnerving. At first I thought he was gay but hadn't accepted it. Then maybe he was uncomfortable in his own skin but why was he chasing the limelight with LI and influencer work. Still can't out my finger on it but he has always given me the creeps. Anyone else?
Glad his ex got to keep the dog.
He seemingly can do no wrong in most people's eyes being a doctor, and a tall one at that but, there is something about him that is (to me) a little unnerving. At first I thought he was gay but hadn't accepted it. Then maybe he was uncomfortable in his own skin but why was he chasing the limelight with LI and influencer work. Still can't out my finger on it but he has always given me the creeps. Anyone else?
Glad his ex got to keep the dog.