Eggsandbeans
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Some guy on LBC said Tilly Ramsey was chubby and now everyone is calling him out on it. He must be after publicity of any kind.
I agree with this! I never want to insult anyone who’s actually neurodivergent but I see so many posts describing normal things that people are saying are because of ADHD. I saw one on LinkedIn by this woman saying she struggled for years because she preferred to work from home and was never allowed, and prefers to work with headphones on to block out noise, and said that was because of her ADHD. Aren’t those just very common and human things to feel? I also feel those things!I have AdHd and autism and it massively affects my life. It essentially affects every action I make and means I struggle to function day to day.
It's absolutely not I put the kettle on for my pasta and forgot to feed the dog. Those are normal manageable day to day difficulties. Yes I do those things but I get so frustrated when infleuncers talk about these very minor things and act like they are an ambassador for neurodivergence.
Off topic but if you are in England please get in touch with your local CCG and send in a complaint. Hope you get sorted xI unfollowed him after the latest post your pill. I am too anxious to approach my doctor about going on medication, I can’t even get an appointment to see a doctor without a massive fight beforehand which I don’t have the energy for. I do not see a regular doctor, always a locum. I am such a peak with my anxiety for the past year I have had to have extra support at work due to breaking down there a couple of times. I would LOVE to be able to post my pill but it feels impossible to get any help I need![]()
But my point is it like a fashion statement!....are we gatekeeping diagnosis's now? considering there was barely any research years ago a lot of adult women have gone through life being incorrectly diagnosed with depression, anxiety, bpd when actually it's adhd.
myself included.
yes it may seem like 'everywhere you turn' someone has it but god forbid they should get the help they need?
i guarantee you no one goes through the agro of trying to get an nhs appointment or paying thousands of pounds to go private if they aren't 100% sure they have it. because who has time for that?
I think common sense on that one would not congratulate someone losing weight on chemo, it is all relevant to the person but in general most people will like the compliment apart from in your example.Thats 1 person. Not everyone feels that way. I also lost a shit load of weight but i was on chemo. Ive never been told how great i looked before then. Everyone kept telling me how healthy i looked, i would always say its ashame my medical records don't feel that way.
Thats the point... You don't always know the reason behind why someone has lost weight.I think common sense on that one would not congratulate someone losing weight on chemo, it is all relevant to the person but in general most people will like the compliment apart from in your example.
I think he looks a lot healthier lately…but the signet ring and his awful tattoos give me the ickI feel there is something cold behind his eyes making his smile never seemingly genuine.
I bet it’s so frustrating and speaking as a professional many that I work with that have ADHD aren’t the ones posting videos and photos screaming about how they have ADHD!As someone that has ADHD I find it so offensive that nearly every second one now has itits like all the have to have it
To be fair if I had a figure like that Id be wearing them to LOLIs that a #gifted holiday he’s posted about?! Girlfriends bikini bottoms are a bit skimpy![]()