@zyxwvu regarding James....he posted recordings on his Insta of his wife....it was shocking and heart breaking to hear....I won't go into detail, but it was this that triggered one of DHBs team to act and report their concerns.
Tbh I probably wrote vile stuff about my ex, and definitely wished him harm at times....when your "man" tells you to put the baby down so he can punch you....you never know what pushes people to say or write things like that....just because you write it doesn't mean you'd do it.....BTW, Im not defending him, just looking from another angle.