Drhilary also doesn’t do fat shaming, more than once she called out doctors/people doing that. She knows she is privileged, and dotes on elderly people. We also shouldn’t judge thin people, I agree they both showcase their appearance, and it is uncomfortable. Having lived with serious anorexic people, I don’t see many of the physical symptoms here. It could be genetic, other illnesses or controlled eating (disordered eating too) in the case of Doireann. But we are not psychiatrists, we can only be concerned.