I think I replied in this thread before I have a 6 year old and he wasnt planned. In ways I dont regret having him but in other ways I do as it made me stay with an abuser.
My confidence was rock bottom and I never stood up for myself against my ex. He made out I was a rubbish mum and the emotional abuse made me stay with him.
In the end I found the courage to leave because of the physical abuse.
I know I never would of been with my ex if It wasnt for my son.
3 years later and I have met my new partner who was in relationship for 10 years and didnt want children.
I was scared he wouldn't want to be with me because of my son but he treats my son with so much love and respect.
My son even said he loved him the other day and it reaffirmed in my mind through all the rubbish I went to get to where I am today that I made the right decision.
My new partner said that in the last few years he changed his mind about having children. Ironically his ex who didnt want children is now living with someone with children too.
I don't know if I'll be lucky enough to have anymore children but what i do know is my son now has a better role model in his life and can now see how a male should treat a female.
My confidence was rock bottom and I never stood up for myself against my ex. He made out I was a rubbish mum and the emotional abuse made me stay with him.
In the end I found the courage to leave because of the physical abuse.
I know I never would of been with my ex if It wasnt for my son.
3 years later and I have met my new partner who was in relationship for 10 years and didnt want children.
I was scared he wouldn't want to be with me because of my son but he treats my son with so much love and respect.
My son even said he loved him the other day and it reaffirmed in my mind through all the rubbish I went to get to where I am today that I made the right decision.
My new partner said that in the last few years he changed his mind about having children. Ironically his ex who didnt want children is now living with someone with children too.
I don't know if I'll be lucky enough to have anymore children but what i do know is my son now has a better role model in his life and can now see how a male should treat a female.
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