Wait what, how has bumble told him you’ve been looking at his profile?
I don’t know if it has!! But I’m paranoid because why would he message me an within an hour of me looking at his profile after not talking for days.He only mentions the child he already has! He tried to bully me into abortion which I wouldn't do, there was no contraception used on either side which he was fully aware of but he 'didnt think I'd fall pregnant'
. He made it clear he wanted no part of babies life so I decided to go it alone and just not mention he was the dad. Although baby is the absolute double of him so I think if it ever comes out that he is the father everyone will wonder how they never realised 
. But when colleagues ask if dad has seen baby yet I always like to tell them what a selfish piece of tit he is especially when he's in ear shot 
It takes a special kind of psychopath to go about their life carefree, knowing they have a child out there that they don’t have a relationship with. How does he sleep at night?! 
Thank youOh my days, what did I just read?
I hope you’re OK @Pink blancmange, that can’t be easy for you and I don’t know how you’ve kept quiet on it to be honest. I’d have been lashing out a Send To All email company-wide on my last day before maternity leave
. I found it hard when I returned from maternity leave, I felt uncomfortable working with him and having to face him but then I realised that actually I have nothing to be ashamed of, I'm raising my children, we both knew the consequences of unprotected sex and I've taken responsibility but he's a coward. He had actually tried to talk to me once when I had her in the pram and didn't even look down at her, he has no idea what she looks like! I swiftly told him where to go!
This is why I hate the talking stage so much
. He was blatantly blunt but it can be so hard to keep a conversation going when you dont know them and especially now when nobody is actually doing anything so even less to speak about! 
You can choose the distance of how far away your profile is visible. Eg I’ve put my distance to 15 miles, so my profile isn’t visible to anyone further than 15 miles away from my location.
This is what puts me off so much of online dating. Do they really think they'll attract anyone? They just throw tit at the wall and hope it sticks. Man after man, all of them mediocre, boring, offering absolutely nothing and not even being attractive...Profiles like that make me wonder what on Earth these men are hoping to attract. The whole point of the Q&A is surely to give you some conversation starters / see if you have something in common / give you an idea of their personality.
Big Craig there might as well open his bio with “I’m dull as duck and have nothing to offer you except this pair of white jeans should you ever need to borrow them”
because i personally feel if a guy wants to get to know you more, just ask for your number. Anyway we added eachother on instagram and then he never replied to me so the only conclusion i’ve come up with is that he looked through my profile and didn’t like it, i dont know why because I don’t even upload much and when i do it’s with friends/on holiday. I do have a couple of pictures of my ex boyfriend from 2 years ago on there but can’t see why that would put him off. Anyway, he still follows me and watches all my stories. I just don’t get it?! It’s a constant guessing game and wondering if people will reply. But then I guess I don’t respond to everyone so i can’t expect everyone to respond to me. I’m about to hit 30 and my friends are getting engaged/ thinking about having kids and I’ve got this image of me at 40 babysitting all their kids while they go out on date night 
Hahha this is my life - loads of random tinder and bumble watch my stories and have done for months (years in some cases) it’s so weird, I unfollow them when I stop talking to them but they don’t.Hey guys, came across this thread as I’m newly single. Really interested to know has anyone been on any lockdown dates i.e going for a walk etc? I’m just like is there any point being on this right now cos what if there’s potential with someone I’m chatting to but because of covid we can’t meet up and then it just fizzles, where as if we could go on dates it might actually go somewhere?! I hate dating and apps as it is, makes me question myself if someone doesn’t reply!
I matched with a guy on Hinge, good conversation that flowed for about a week and then he asked if he could add me on instagram. I was a bit like oh ok
Lockdown dates at the moment are awful. I had one just after the new year which ended up being a 3 hour walk in muddy fields (I didn't wear the right shoes) and half the time I couldn't talk as I was concentrating on not falling over!Hey guys, came across this thread as I’m newly single. Really interested to know has anyone been on any lockdown dates i.e going for a walk etc? I’m just like is there any point being on this right now cos what if there’s potential with someone I’m chatting to but because of covid we can’t meet up and then it just fizzles, where as if we could go on dates it might actually go somewhere?! I hate dating and apps as it is, makes me question myself if someone doesn’t reply!
I matched with a guy on Hinge, good conversation that flowed for about a week and then he asked if he could add me on instagram. I was a bit like oh ok
Quoting myself but he’s deleted his account. It says deleted user.
he must not have been having any luck on bumble.... I am not surprised 
