Oh my god?! Are we living the same life
I met up with my ex yesterday too!!
How did you feel seeing him? Did you feel the same as you did when you were with him? Or has it been kind of ruined because of what he did to you? Did he apologise or I guess you didn’t speak about the topic?
I met up with my ex to walk our dog (who I haven’t seen as he’s living with him) we walked for nearly 4 hours aimlessly talking, like we used to! We didn’t mention the break up either! In a way id like an apology which I’m sure I’d get if I brought up the topic but it’s a bit too early for me to bring up those emotions.
I think for both of us, we need to protect ourselves from these men. Remind ourselves we are happy single too. We don’t NEED them at all but if they can make up and show change, there might be a chance that WE will see them again. I believe relationships go through changes and a pandemic was not an easy task to get through but I will reserve so much of myself by even entertaining the idea of being a friend to him right now. As much as I still love him deep down.
Let me know how you feel!! It’s nice to have someone in the same boat (tho I’m sorry you had to go through what you did because I REALLY understand how hard it must have been!) xx