most dicks are pretty gross up close, they stare at you with their little eyeThis is eye opening! Is it ever enjoyable? I’m terrified of itcoming near me (mainly face tbh
) and alllll fluids including spit.
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Spit can be quite sensual…if it’s done in the right way…
I think porn has a lot to answer for when it comes to men's expectations of women during sex. They think we're like kettles and will come to the boil in 2 minutes flatmy ex could barely get me to orgasm and then wanted me to try squirting #delusional
I posted a screenshot from a ghoster earlier this week. They used to message so full of chat and then drop off the face of the earth and try to come back months later like nothing happened.
There's a reason the phrase 'better than sex' exists, and it's because when sex is good, there is NOTHING (or at least very little) better.This is eye opening! Is it ever enjoyable? I’m terrified of it
Problem is there's a lot of lads out there who've watched a lot of porn and think this is what women are like. I lucked out getting a really great first boyfriend who was experienced but wanted to grow sexually WITH me - he taught me a lot about my own desires and how to vocalise/manifest them. I think figuring out what turns YOU on first will save you a lot of hassle in the future. A lot of guys you have to train to do what you want.
Please ignore @gelicahah
some dicks are really quite beautiful in the right light (usually pretty dim tbf...)
It's so confusing and hurtful. I like you so if you like me let's make something of it. If not then goodbye.
Yes! Especially with the right person. In my opinion, sex is waaaay better in relationships as you are able to communicate much easier and better with your partner about you like/don't like, and more open to trying things.This is eye opening! Is it ever enjoyable? I’m terrified of it
It can be awkward as duck though sometimes (read: queefing LOL as one example) but I've learned that it isn't embarassing if you are both mature enough to shrug it off and carry on
When did he vanish?
This!
I’ve always had a very average sex life - and whenever I’ve suggested things that I wanted, I’ve always been made to feel shamed/embarrassed
Current guy I’m dating - he got me “toys” as a gift and then we use them in the bedroom together. Rather than shaming my needs, he supports them
and equally, he tells me what he wants/likes, and we do that. We’re both happy 
The best sex I ever had, he then gave me the ick. He managed to get me to reach the big O every time, I miss that
Men who are comfortable and expressive in their sexuality are the best as they’re not intimidated by things like toys. Men who want a woman to experience pleasure as well as themselves are the ones to be having sex with.
Naaah one friend tried to turn it round saying they've invited me round.....ONCE when I was feeling pure crap after being dumped and was hours later when my gay BF had already offered
I so give up. Maybe I'm better just being me and the cat lol
I so give up. Maybe I'm better just being me and the cat lol
Pro tip: lads who identify as feminists have a pretty high chance of being great in bed. They wanna prove themselves by attending to your needs and putting your pleasure before theirs
He last text me Wednesday morning. I posted a screenshot earlier of what he said which was a chatty nice message. I replied and it was delivered but never received a response so text again. Everything else has been undelivered.
My ex boyfriend was the nicest guy I've ever dated but he was also 'just nice' in the sack. There was no passion and it was one of the reasons why I ended it with him. The guy I was seeing at the beginning of this year made my whole body feel like it was on fire and the chemistry we had I've not been able to find.
I have a date tomorrow with a guy I've been chatting to on the apps and physically he's my type
keep your fingers crossed for me that this one makes me feel some type of wayyy
I have a date tomorrow with a guy I've been chatting to on the apps and physically he's my type
keep your fingers crossed for me that this one makes me feel some type of wayyy
Oh I have been told about queefing!
Ahah I have seen a few dicks in my time mostly via Snapchat and WhatsApp however not so much in real life (I’ve been poked by them a few times).
I turn 29 in 2 months, 30 next year praying to all things in the sky, heaven and above I have sex very very soon so it’s over and done with!
I listen to all my friends stories and I’m like
Toys - I grew up mega conservative (think church on sundays, Sunday school, not celebrating Halloween, the works) I was given one a few years ago by a friend who had an Ann summers party but I’m too scared to use it. Mainly because ofnall the times we’re told it’s bad/ shamed. Religion has a lot to answer for!
@justapossum this guy sounds lovely x
Ahah I have seen a few dicks in my time mostly via Snapchat and WhatsApp however not so much in real life (I’ve been poked by them a few times).
I turn 29 in 2 months, 30 next year praying to all things in the sky, heaven and above I have sex very very soon so it’s over and done with!
I listen to all my friends stories and I’m like
Toys - I grew up mega conservative (think church on sundays, Sunday school, not celebrating Halloween, the works) I was given one a few years ago by a friend who had an Ann summers party
but I’m too scared to use it. Mainly because ofnall the times we’re told it’s bad/ shamed. Religion has a lot to answer for!@justapossum this guy sounds lovely x
I feel like this happens so often now that it’s almost normal
You have usNaaah one friend tried to turn it round saying they've invited me round.....ONCE when I was feeling pure crap after being dumped and was hours later when my gay BF had already offered
I so give up. Maybe I'm better just being me and the cat lol
I usually think it is normal if they block but he seems to have gone completely AWOL.I feel like this happens so often now that it’s almost normal
I've straight up had a man buy me a vibrator before because he knows I have a high sex drive and didn't want me too frustrated in between his visits
and I still use it looolI was religious growing up and I felt a lot of shame and pressure around sex!Toys - I grew up mega conservative (think church on sundays, Sunday school, not celebrating Halloween, the works) I was given one a few years ago by a friend who had an Ann summers party
@justapossum this guy sounds lovely x
This guy is the reason why I finally feel comfortable with toys and being expressive with my needs as before I would just settle for very average sex as I thought I wasn’t “allowed” to have or express my own needs
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