I’m feeling a little worried that we’re having an off phase, we’ve both had a lot going on recently and we seem ok when we talk but there’s a feeling of distance there for me and I miss feeling as close to him. I’m also a bit worried that I’ve sabotaged it by telling him I’ve had moments of not being sure if I wanted to keep this going.. I’m hoping seeing him on Tuesday will help.
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I think you’re maybe sending him major mixed messages if you’ve said that you’re not sure about the situation but also said you love him..?
Blahhh, I guess I am.
I’m gonna leave this thread and enjoy the summer holidays with my daughter, it’s not for an overthinker
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I do like a man that exudes such charm.
There are so many passive aggressive (or just aggressive) profiles around now. Its such a red flag
Thank you everyone 
I've paused my profile on the apps I'm just going to focus on myself and enjoy the summer with friends. Lockdown made me realise I'm ok being alone, I like doing things on my own but it's just all those milestones in the year that tends to make me feel lonely. It's tough isn't it - it would be nice to have someone to share those special events with.Oh that really really sucksI think when you have a few in a row that aren’t good or don’t go anywhere it can be really hard. Sometimes I take a break at that point, hide my profile and try to do other things. But I know it’s not that simple because then you can feel even more lonely. Can also relate to the birthday thing. I’ve been mostly single for the last 6 years, other than two 6 month relationships, and my birthday is a huge trigger for me.
He hasn't messaged me since Thursday evening, he sent a reaction to something I posted on Insta yesterday but I'm not bothered if I don't hear from him. If anything it would be better because I don't have to have the 'didn't feel a connection' convo with him
In Bristol city centre on the gin I will get through tonight without texting any abuse to anyone 
have a fab Saturday night ladies those of you with dates go get em tiger 
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have a fab Saturday night ladies those of you with dates go get em tiger xx
Have a fabulous nightIn Bristol city centre on the gin I will get through tonight without texting any abuse to anyone
i keep checking when last night’s date was last seen on WhatsApp. 
I do that!! Turn off your last seen I promise it helps xx
i keep checking when last night’s date was last seen on WhatsApp.
Mine has always been off but his isn’t. So I keep changing my settings so my status is seen just so I can see his last seen
You and me- sameMine has always been off but his isn’t. So I keep changing my settings so my status is seen just so I can see his last seen
I give this great advice can’t take it myself 
Having a few swipes on Hinge - do we reckon this is his own wedding photo or he just hasn’t twigged how much it looks like it is?!
is he not reading your message then? Or has he left you on read? I feel like I’ve missed somethingi keep checking when last night’s date was last seen on WhatsApp.
Got a sore thumb from swiping left on overweight bearded men, alternating between bald and ginger haired. I don’t mean to sound like a witch but there was just zero effort put in to their profile picture, just candid up shots in work vans or on the couch 
come on. Accidentally swiped right on a few profiles I didn’t meant to as well ffs. Closed the app when I seen this
Fair play for wanting a better life but what a Debbie Downer. I need to put some comedy on now because that was depressing.
come on. Accidentally swiped right on a few profiles I didn’t meant to as well ffs. Closed the app when I seen thisFair play for wanting a better life but what a Debbie Downer. I need to put some comedy on now because that was depressing.
why would you even put that?Got a sore thumb from swiping left on overweight bearded men, alternating between bald and ginger haired. I don’t mean to sound like a witch but there was just zero effort put in to their profile picture, just candid up shots in work vans or on the couch
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Fair play for wanting a better life but what a Debbie Downer. I need to put some comedy on now because that was depressing.
Omg hope you had the best night! We might have walked past each other, living our best lives in Bristol city centreIn Bristol city centre on the gin I will get through tonight without texting any abuse to anyone
So like I dunno. Updating after a considerable number of beers. I met a guy that I was really keen on on an impromptu date this evening and I'm just walking home now. We kissed so much I am not sure if I can feel my face any more. Kind of didn't mention it on here as I was really keen but we were only meant to meet in a few weeks so didn't want to get my hopes up. But it was a great date I think.
Hi - mind if I join you? Just started dating after divorce so its all new to me. I'm texting a few men who all sound nice but its all about the chemistry in real life isnt it? I must say that I have found my detective skills to be excellent. One man had his first name and occupation on his profile and from that I have found his LInkedin, address, ex wife etc!! I am in the wrong job.
@HelloStereo what an excellent first date!
@HelloStereo what an excellent first date!
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