Dating after lockdown #5 The MANdemic

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I don't think that is necessarily a bad thing, it means you can show him what to do and mould him for you ;)
exactly! I don’t see this as a bad thing. And it’s probably because everything else is great that I don’t mind this too much.
I’ve had such bad experiences with dating that I’m struggling to take my barriers down but this guy seems to be a pretty good catch. I’ll try not to get too ahead of myself though 😬
 
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exactly! I don’t see this as a bad thing. And it’s probably because everything else is great that I don’t mind this too much.
I’ve had such bad experiences with dating that I’m struggling to take my barriers down but this guy seems to be a pretty good catch. I’ll try not to get too ahead of myself though 😬
excited for you! let us know how it goes!
 
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Hello everyone! So yesterday I’ve been on my second date with a guy and it’s going so well!! I cannot see any major red flags 🚩. We have so much in common, it’s just refreshing. We talked about seeing each other this week and that I might stay at his 😏.
The only thing is, we talked a bit about sex and he seems to have less experience than me. I sensed that he may be a bit intimidated but we shall see. I usually like a man who knows what he’s doing, who can control me but he said he’s never done this before and that he’s probably too gentle. So that’s my only worry I think 😬
I was in a similar situation recently where he is less experienced however it has meant he's really up for trying new/different things and we just go at a pace which works for us (i.e not going straight into the hardcore stuff) to test the waters. We've just been open about it all and it's avoided any awkwardness so far. Good luck 😊
 
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I was in a similar situation recently where he is less experienced however it has meant he's really up for trying new/different things and we just go at a pace which works for us (i.e not going straight into the hardcore stuff) to test the waters. We've just been open about it all and it's avoided any awkwardness so far. Good luck 😊
oh thanks for your comment! It feels reassuring :)
He said he would be up to try new things and i think it would be exciting to “teach” him some stuff I like. He has shown interest and seems to be intrigued which allowed us to speak about it all very openly.
ill report back! :)
 
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Do men still send unsolicited fool pics? I thought we were way passed that stage of neanderthal understanding! 😱


I don’t see the point of a stationary pen picture. I mean is it that easy to get off? Now a wanking video of my man is a different story!
I just like being teased by them.
 
oh thanks for your comment! It feels reassuring :)
He said he would be up to try new things and i think it would be exciting to “teach” him some stuff I like. He has shown interest and seems to be intrigued which allowed us to speak about it all very openly.
ill report back! :)
his attitude and openess is a really good sign imo! Also love that you are open to it too, I have met so many women who are just "scared" to voice what they like and end up in (physically) unsatisfactory relationships
 
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The final episode of Confessions of a Tinder Toyboy (aka Stranger Things) Friday's episode concludes.

So, my last text was to point out how his priorities magically shifted after I declined a video call, only to suddenly revert back when he noticed my WhatsApp pic had vanished. His reply.

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He'd dramatically declares that he'd been offline all week. Not true and I told him. He story then changes. Gotta say, he talks to his manager and some wacky times. 2.30 am, really? 😆 He rambles further...

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And that's where I left it as I couldn't be arsed replying anymore. He is laying it on thick trying to convince me, but once they do the Houdini, my interest level plummets 🤷‍♀️ It's really very hard to recapture once you suspect they're BS'ing.
 
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The final episode of Confessions of a Tinder Toyboy (aka Stranger Things) Friday's episode concludes.

So, my last text was to point out how his priorities magically shifted after I declined a video call, only to suddenly revert back when he noticed my WhatsApp pic had vanished. His reply.

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He'd dramatically declares that he'd been offline all week. Not true and I told him. He story then changes. Gotta say, he talks to his manager and some wacky times. 2.30 am, really? 😆 He rambles further...

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And that's where I left it as I couldn't be arsed replying anymore. He is laying it on thick trying to convince me, but once they do the Houdini, my interest level plummets 🤷‍♀️ It's really very hard to recapture once you suspect they're BS'ing.
the only positive I would say is that he has good grammar and punctuation :ROFLMAO:
 
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The final episode of Confessions of a Tinder Toyboy (aka Stranger Things) Friday's episode concludes.

So, my last text was to point out how his priorities magically shifted after I declined a video call, only to suddenly revert back when he noticed my WhatsApp pic had vanished. His reply.

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He'd dramatically declares that he'd been offline all week. Not true and I told him. He story then changes. Gotta say, he talks to his manager and some wacky times. 2.30 am, really? 😆 He rambles further...

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And that's where I left it as I couldn't be arsed replying anymore. He is laying it on thick trying to convince me, but once they do the Houdini, my interest level plummets 🤷‍♀️ It's really very hard to recapture once you suspect they're BS'ing.
I’d stop responding. I have a feeling he would vanish before the meet up unless you fancy calling his bluff by saying ok text me the plans.
 
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Hello everyone! So yesterday I’ve been on my second date with a guy and it’s going so well!! I cannot see any major red flags 🚩. We have so much in common, it’s just refreshing. We talked about seeing each other this week and that I might stay at his 😏.
The only thing is, we talked a bit about sex and he seems to have less experience than me. I sensed that he may be a bit intimidated but we shall see. I usually like a man who knows what he’s doing, who can control me but he said he’s never done this before and that he’s probably too gentle. So that’s my only worry I think 😬
I wouldn’t be worried about that at all. Why can’t you take the reigns for once, it’s so much fun! Besides, the first time is usually fairly quick anyway! 🤣

The final episode of Confessions of a Tinder Toyboy (aka Stranger Things) Friday's episode concludes.

So, my last text was to point out how his priorities magically shifted after I declined a video call, only to suddenly revert back when he noticed my WhatsApp pic had vanished. His reply.

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He'd dramatically declares that he'd been offline all week. Not true and I told him. He story then changes. Gotta say, he talks to his manager and some wacky times. 2.30 am, really? 😆 He rambles further...

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And that's where I left it as I couldn't be arsed replying anymore. He is laying it on thick trying to convince me, but once they do the Houdini, my interest level plummets 🤷‍♀️ It's really very hard to recapture once you suspect they're BS'ing.
Do you actually want to meet him? If you’re over it, I’d stop responding now.
 
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I’d stop responding. I have a feeling he would vanish before the meet up unless you fancy calling his bluff by saying ok text me the plans.
Oh, for sure. I'd guarantee another emergency would crop up.

Do you actually want to meet him? If you’re over it, I’d stop responding now.
Well, as I say, I didn't respond any further. The idea of meeting up with him has certainly lost it's charm for me.
 
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On bumble there’s a question that’s something like “how would your school teacher describe you?” And some of their answers are along the lines of “sexy”, “they called me bae” etc. I’m like 😐 riiiighhhttt.
 
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