Dating after lockdown #4 The bar for men is so low it's in hell

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Wowitsme

He’s addressing in the sense that he says “oh it was shit was it” “my dick is small right” and it just makes me cringe
 
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Clementine

Ah, he sounds like he just want you to tell him he has a massive penis and that the sex was amazing

Nobody can tell you what to do obviously, but I’d be getting rid and buying a sex toy.
 
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hypoharpy

I know dating is a totally different animal these days but girls, know your own worth.Men have to come up to your expectations too but it always seems to be about theirs. Take things slowly if you're not sure. This will root out those who want a quick f***.If that's all you want yourself,fair play but if not it's helpful.
Just stay safe and have fun , you all deserve it
 
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whathastheworldcometo

Wowitsme said:
Badly!!!!!
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He should see it as a growth opportunity



I met the guy I recently met on an App for the second time last night. He came to mine, we had a glass of wine and he stayed over.

Unlike Wowitsme I had a really good time. I couldn't get enough and he couldn't either.

It was a bit strange that he stayed over given we only saw each other for the second time and when I look at him I realise that I don't even know him as he looks a bit different to how I picture him in my head (if this makes sense?).
But we have really good conversations and I feel comfortable with him.

Maybe this is just a chemistry thing, that our bodies and smells simply match. And our entertainment preferences (movies, music etc) and sense of humour. And we are the same age. And almost same size.

I wonder what will happen?
 
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hereforthegossip21

Absolutely! I quickly get wrapped up in something and I’m at the moment dating someone and things are going amazing and seem to have a real connection and seems to be all good but at the same time I’ve always struggled with the over thinking and worrying that they’ll always find someone better, more deserving, nicer etc and I then start to worry that things are going to disintegrate and fall apart, and I start to self sabotage then but I just have to try and remember we just have to enjoy it for what it is in the here and how and not putting that kind of pressure on it as I’ve found it takes me into toxic places and I don’t want that to happen with this guy.
 
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HitchhikingGhost

Yeah I need to remember that. I'm so bad for self sabotaging. I've played it cool up to now (week 3 of seeing someone) but now I'm starting to over think I don't want to go the other way and seem clingy/full on or whatever.

Definitely going to try and remember just to enjoy the moment.
 
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whathastheworldcometo

Yes, I used to be like that as well.

I would find problems or create some myself and make things difficult and complicated at an early stage.

I have now let go if this I believe - I can enjoy things and if there will be heartache at some stage then so be it.
 
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thunderfook

I think because we’ve had so many dissapointments, we are always waiting for one show to drop when things are going well. Anyone remember the SATC episode ‘drama queens’ when Carrie was complaining that things were too good with Aidan?
 
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