Only men really care about financial stability (hence why the rich guys can chase and catch the tweenies all the time). It’s what thry conpete with their mates about and what makes them feel a proper man (you can see why they’re such douche bags already).It’s the last thing you should be worried about, a decent man wouldn’t dump you over money.
think that as a single mum, you live the way a person would expect you to and shouldn’t feel bad about that. There are a hell of a lot of men who lie about their financial status and a hell of a lot of men in debt, supporting families, whilst trying to live themselves, so please don’t take anything at face value.
The only ones you would expect to be well off are single, have never married and have no kids and work in super high powered jobs like hedge fund management. Even an ex of mine in his 30s, who was a solicitor was only earning 30k. If money is their primary motive, I doubt very much you would be interested in them anyway.
Be proud of who you are, that your bringing up a child who you love and nurture and provide everything he/she needs and that you pay your bills, put food on the table and provide a nice roof over your heads. Honestly after Covid, a lot of people have absolutely nothing, so flaunting that you have excess money to fritter away is actually just crass and off putting (in my eyes anyway)!
And if they don’t, BYE BYE!I agree. If people want to reply they will.