I found a guy from tinder who messed me around for a few months linked in profile. He told me he had no social media and after I stupidly slept with him and then he kept messing me around, I googled his first name and the company he worked for (large UK recruitment firmwhere did she say that it “might be okay for a hot guy to do this”?!
i don’t care if the guy looks like henry cavill: if he’s going through hundreds of fb accounts with my first name so he message me in my own “space” rather than on app, that’s already a blatant disregard for boundaries and, to be blunt, makes me feel unsafe. the aw shucks nice guy tone of his messages made me want to shrivel up in a ball. he knew EXACTLY what he was doing. not to mention the amount of girls in the replies who he’d done the exact same thing to.
![Grimacing face :grimacing: 😬](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f62c.png)
Turns out he was telling the truth about where he worked at least
![Grinning squinting face :laughing: 😆](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f606.png)
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Also, I NEVER trust a guy who only has selfies on their dating profile as it implies to me they don’t really have much of a social life