You need Chump Lady in you life. Maybe even write to her? She does this section which she calls "Universal Bullshit Translator" and its so fucking nice to have someone else help with the muddling and mess that narcs do to your brain.
You need Chump Lady in you life. Maybe even write to her? She does this section which she calls "Universal Bullshit Translator" and its so fucking nice to have someone else help with the muddling and mess that narcs do to your brain.I’m not, I know this but I also want someone to have fun with. I’m a big mess. My ex still lives with us until the divorce will go through, I have to watch him go on countless dates and holidays with the woman he had an affair with so I feel like I need someone to spend time with. I just want sex tbh.
I want to have a fun summer with no commitments just dates and sex with someone, not lots of people just one haha
i can’t move on while he’s here crying and telling me he’s not happy yet off on his 12th holiday in less than a year with the woman. Yet I can’t have no one because I don’t know. Sorry waffle brain today god it’s tough.
Exact same, most are just not what I'm into at allIs anyone else really struggling to find any guys attractive on the apps? I know my standards are high and I'm attracted to a very specific type but I only send out 1 like a day if that, I just don't like anyone on there and I keep comparing them to previous people I've been involved with/that left me
hinge specifically cause i'm banned from tinder (a year ago for calling out a catfish so he reported me) and i hate bumble
yeah, i don't want to lower my standards.. and i don't think i should have to because when i like someone i REALLY like them, and i put all my eggs in their basket so it's not like i'm messing around.. but there's really nothing out hereExact same, most are just not what I'm into at all
Is anyone else really struggling to find any guys attractive on the apps? I know my standards are high and I'm attracted to a very specific type but I only send out 1 like a day if that, I just don't like anyone on there and I keep comparing them to previous people I've been involved with/that left me
hinge specifically cause i'm banned from tinder (a year ago for calling out a catfish so he reported me) and i hate bumble
please tell me this is a joke because, if not, it’s one of the most depressing things i’ve read on this thread 🫠We need to say goodbye to our type if we wanna get married one day
I've always said it, it's not just men, it's people!It's interesting reading this thread from a male point of view. Lots of what you ladies are saying happens to guys too (minus the dick pics of course)
I've lost track of the amount of women I've been talking to where I literally have to carry the conversation. It's a two way thing isn't it and it's hard work if the other person is not putting in at least the same effort as you are.
honestly, you should never have to change your type unless it’s something completely unrealistic like you’re only attracted to russian royalty or formula 1 millionaires from monaco.I don’t really think changing your type can work especially with online dating? Probably could in real life e.g. you get a crush on someone you work with who isn’t your usual type but you fancy them anyway.
But personally I struggle with that.
For example, I go for tall men like most of us do on here, so I get zero enthusiasm at the thought of going on dates with someone 5”8. However I’m sure if I met someone in real though and developed a crush their height wouldn’t matter though as much as it does with online dating
You definitely have to be attracted to someone. Don't know why my keyboard underlined that?? Obviously agrees!I think physical attraction is very important and as women we're told to not focus on it, to think about 'personality' instead like we're supposed to prove we're not shallow, but I don't care!! I'd be physically repulsed if I wasn't attracted to someone...
I can get an injunction I have enough on him but I’m worried it’s unforgivable and my kids will be angry at me in later life.
I'm convinced that straight men have NO idea how to make a profile that appeals to women. No effort in their bio, and not to mention the amount of scraggly neckbeards I've seen!!!yeah, i don't want to lower my standards.. and i don't think i should have to because when i like someone i REALLY like them, and i put all my eggs in their basket so it's not like i'm messing around.. but there's really nothing out hereand i really need to stop comparing them to past lovers but it's so hard
Scraggly neckbeardsI'm convinced that straight men have NO idea how to make a profile that appeals to women. No effort in their bio, and not to mention the amount of scraggly neckbeards I've seen!!!
Where can we find this chump lady and what’s her username?You need Chump Lady in you life. Maybe even write to her? She does this section which she calls "Universal Bullshit Translator" and its so fucking nice to have someone else help with the muddling and mess that narcs do to your brain.
Where can we find this chump lady and what’s her username?
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