Omg that is so typicalThanks! It’s super hard but I need to learn from my past mistakes. What’s funny is he knows someone I used to “see” and think he’s a prick. But he’s doing the same behaviour the bloke he thinks a prick
it’s this one! Found her on TikTok and the. Found her podcast.30 minute-ish episodes!
I mean I'm not defending the guy because I know what they're like, but if he was thinking the same all day, like why isn't she messaging me?Arranged a dog walking date- no time or meeting point as it was happening a few days later. Then on said day, didn’t hear from the bloke all day- didn’t chase etc nothing. And still not chasing him, even for an explanation/apology 24hrs later, deleted the chat, deleted his numbergrowth for me!!
even if they’re not showing their best behaviour at the start* then get gone.
It’s like a job basically!
*excepts applied.
I totally get that and Ive thought about his POV But I rang him Saturday night and he didn’t answer (accidentally rang him twice lol) So I left it cause I knew he was up early to walk the dog and then was at work all day.I mean I'm not defending the guy because I know what they're like, but if he was thinking the same all day, like why isn't she messaging me?
i know right! I just wanna text saying “you remind me of beep so much right now!” But I won’t!Omg that is so typicalwell done for putting him where he belongs - the bin!!
Thank you! I’ll give it a listen - sounds really good
what would your expectations be following this conversation? if he’s moving back to australia permanently then that is a big ask to maintain a long distance relationship tbh. the expense of flights alone is a lot to put on a person.Hi all,
I'm really not sure if this is the right thread to ask for advice here.
I am new to this thread, I have stalked it a few times but never contributed to the discussion.
I am in desperate need of some advice, I have turned to my friends but It would also be great to have some opinions from tattlers.
I met an Australian boy on Tinder 4 months ago, he moved to the UK with the intention of staying for a few years and it has been a great 4 months, I have never felt so secure when dating and we have had a very healthy 'Relationship'. His mental health was starting to go down the drain and he has been very open with these discussions with me for the past month and a half about moving back to Australia and I definitely support his decision as I want nothing but the best for him, his flight is in 2 weeks.
We are/was exclusively dating which we both agreed on, I know he likes me and he has expressed me visiting Australia and has said he will miss me etc, I am seeing him tonight and next weekend as I am out of the country from tomorrow for the next 6 days so I am unable to see him in between.
I am still trying to workout my feelings but do I ask him tonight how he truly feels about me or wait till next weekend? A part of me really wants to know but I am also nervous to ask.
If you guys was in my situation, would you have the discussion tonight?
Probably best to just enjoy your remaining time together then call it a day and stop all contactHi all,
I'm really not sure if this is the right thread to ask for advice here.
I am new to this thread, I have stalked it a few times but never contributed to the discussion.
I am in desperate need of some advice, I have turned to my friends but It would also be great to have some opinions from tattlers.
I met an Australian boy on Tinder 4 months ago, he moved to the UK with the intention of staying for a few years and it has been a great 4 months, I have never felt so secure when dating and we have had a very healthy 'Relationship'. His mental health was starting to go down the drain and he has been very open with these discussions with me for the past month and a half about moving back to Australia and I definitely support his decision as I want nothing but the best for him, his flight is in 2 weeks.
We are/was exclusively dating which we both agreed on, I know he likes me and he has expressed me visiting Australia and has said he will miss me etc, I am seeing him tonight and next weekend as I am out of the country from tomorrow for the next 6 days so I am unable to see him in between.
I am still trying to workout my feelings but do I ask him tonight how he truly feels about me or wait till next weekend? A part of me really wants to know but I am also nervous to ask.
If you guys was in my situation, would you have the discussion tonight?
I had this once, and by the time I got home he sent me a final message accusing me of ghosting him and wishing me good luck. Byeguys, men truly cannot win with mematched with a guy yesterday, he messaged first, did a bit of small talk, sent me a really long message at lunch today which i didn’t have time to reply to and so thought: hey, i’ll do a proper response when i get home. get home to find two further messages: “how is your day going?” and then, two hours later, “how is your day going, okay?” and now i have the ick
me: why do men never message me?
man: messages
me: oh that’s too much messaging sorry.
not gonna lie clem, the ick has already clenched around my heart. i hate clinginess and this is like, ten messages (at max) in! calm down buddy.Are you going to reply, @LaBlonde?
I’m reaching the stage where every man (bar Jamie Dornan) irks and repulses me. Have just unmatched one who’d asked if “I wanted some company tonight?”. We’d only just started talking today
Sounds anxious from him. I think they should learn patience.guys, men truly cannot win with mematched with a guy yesterday, he messaged first, did a bit of small talk, sent me a really long message at lunch today which i didn’t have time to reply to and so thought: hey, i’ll do a proper response when i get home. get home to find two further messages: “how is your day going?” and then, two hours later, “how is your day going, okay?” and now i have the ick
me: why do men never message me?
man: messages
me: oh that’s too much messaging sorry.
I think you have to be prepared for all the possible scenarios and what you want. He has already dropped that "visiting Australia". Maybe it would be worth to clarify if he wants to keep you as a friend or wants to continue the relationship. If the latter is the case, then that's a lot of effort. I know couples that make it, but it's serious effort because someone has to move and all of that (maybe him? it was already his intention).Hi all,
I'm really not sure if this is the right thread to ask for advice here.
I am new to this thread, I have stalked it a few times but never contributed to the discussion.
I am in desperate need of some advice, I have turned to my friends but It would also be great to have some opinions from tattlers.
I met an Australian boy on Tinder 4 months ago, he moved to the UK with the intention of staying for a few years and it has been a great 4 months, I have never felt so secure when dating and we have had a very healthy 'Relationship'. His mental health was starting to go down the drain and he has been very open with these discussions with me for the past month and a half about moving back to Australia and I definitely support his decision as I want nothing but the best for him, his flight is in 2 weeks.
We are/was exclusively dating which we both agreed on, I know he likes me and he has expressed me visiting Australia and has said he will miss me etc, I am seeing him tonight and next weekend as I am out of the country from tomorrow for the next 6 days so I am unable to see him in between.
I am still trying to workout my feelings but do I ask him tonight how he truly feels about me or wait till next weekend? A part of me really wants to know but I am also nervous to ask.
If you guys was in my situation, would you have the discussion tonight?
If you aren’t @EndofInfluencers, then you must be mesame for me but with the exception of andrew garfield
maybe we’re tripletsIf you aren’t @EndofInfluencers, then you must be meSeriously though, I have so many questions to most men but Andrew Garfield is special.
Getting back to the original topic of discussion, clinginess in men is a turn-off because it usually signifies bigger problems down the line (low self-esteem, attachment issues, jealousy and so on). Ain’t nobody got time for that…
I want to laugh, but they’re trueAlso, the whole answering to a man and justifying yourself. I could never.
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oh no, sorry clem! i meant sad in terms of how true it is, not implying that you were making light of the subject*not making light of SH btw*
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