It's a very shitty blessing in disguise. I know it sucks and it's hard to not internalise it - but really, it's just a man. There's plenty and majority of them behave like it, so it can't possibly be a you problem can it?I have a feeling my date Wednesday isn't going to happen. He's barely messaged me since last Wednesday, hasn't read my last message which I sent friday (had a question in the message, so not like he had nothing to respond to). Just disappointed.
Need to make sure I don't get sucked into the whole "nobody's ever going to love me/what's wrong with me" spiral of unhappiness. Dating is evaluating, I'm a lovely person and I will be a great partner, and if he doesn't want to meet then it just isn't meant to be.
Exactly - do yourself a favour and block. He’s a tosser.It's a very shitty blessing in disguise. I know it sucks and it's hard to not internalise it - but really, it's just a man. There's plenty and majority of them behave like it, so it can't possibly be a you problem can it?
If he happens to reply, please try to refrain from responding! He's clearly made his mind up
Def one for the bin. It’s just so disrespectful of your time and effort to basically bail such last minute. Zero consideration. As we say a lot on this thread ‘trust your gut’. It never lies! XLadies it's rant time. I need you're opinions on a guy and I already know the answer but it's best to ask anyway.
So was supposed to meet a guy this evening so all was fine I thought, he texted asking if still on. I said yes and I was getting ready etc. During my getting ready he sends another text that he can only stay until a certain time as has to do something. I asked why didn't you tell me this earlier..He says I forgot I only got a call there to remind him and did I still want to meet.
Bare in mind it would only have been around a 30 minutes date, I didn't see the point and told him another time but there's no way I'm entertaining him again.. he kept saying I'll wait until you're ready bla bla but I said no..
Background to him I've meet him once before and got on well etc but it's like he just wants to hit it and quit it. That's what I feel like. This isn't the first time,he has in the past sent a text asking what I'm doing and would I be up for meeting etc no actual planned date by him so obviously I said no.
It actually upset me as I was doing my makeup etc was such a waste of time. I just feel he wants everything on his terms like with meeting.
I know he's a loser and it's his loss and I will be blocking and deleting.
It’s not rejection - it’s just a misalignment. And he’s a tosserThe chat has already been blocked and deleted. I like to think of rejection as redirection towards something better
So disrespectful! Do men honestly think we’ve got nothing better to do then wait around for them to grace us with their dickery? Glad you’ve put him in the bin.Ladies it's rant time. I need you're opinions on a guy and I already know the answer but it's best to ask anyway.
So was supposed to meet a guy this evening so all was fine I thought, he texted asking if still on. I said yes and I was getting ready etc. During my getting ready he sends another text that he can only stay until a certain time as has to do something. I asked why didn't you tell me this earlier..He says I forgot I only got a call there to remind him and did I still want to meet.
Bare in mind it would only have been around a 30 minutes date, I didn't see the point and told him another time but there's no way I'm entertaining him again.. he kept saying I'll wait until you're ready bla bla but I said no..
Background to him I've meet him once before and got on well etc but it's like he just wants to hit it and quit it. That's what I feel like. This isn't the first time,he has in the past sent a text asking what I'm doing and would I be up for meeting etc no actual planned date by him so obviously I said no.
It actually upset me as I was doing my makeup etc was such a waste of time. I just feel he wants everything on his terms like with meeting.
I know he's a loser and it's his loss and I will be blocking and deleting.
1000% thisI actually think men do this to see how much we’d put up with ya know.
Yeah it’s interesting to get the perspective from the other side. I can imagine it does make men jaded thinking women aren’t real/bots etc however when they seem to match genuine women, they continue to let themselves down (obv not all, but most)From a male perspective, most dating apps seem to be filled with bots, scam accounts or men pretending to be women for some strange reason.
Interesting to hear from someone from the other side, so to speak…From speaking to someone recently on Bumble he said that around 20% of the women on Bumble are on there solely to promote their OnlyFans and/or IG account- which further proves my suspicions that Bumble is Tinder lite at this point.From a male perspective, most dating apps seem to be filled with bots, scam accounts or men pretending to be women for some strange reason.
You are 100% correct.I actually think men do this to see how much we’d put up with ya know.
Tell me you're a misogynistic porn addict without telling me you're a misogynistic porn addict... I hope he gets hit by a busOr a dating site for men who want to actually date. Ludicrous idea, I know
Here are 3 profiles of men I’ve just swiped left on…
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Is this where I say "Not all men..." and get shouted at?
absolutely!!! I was listening to a podcast and it said someone coming into your life should an addition, not instead of. And that’s my motive now! If I’ve got someone adding stres, anxiety, worry etc instead of fun, laughter, consistency etc- be gone!@boomska Love this- we need to realise that we set the standard.
Well done for deleting and not chasing! What podcast was it?absolutely!!! I was listening to a podcast and it said someone coming into your life should an addition, not instead of. And that’s my motive now! If I’ve got someone adding stres, anxiety, worry etc instead of fun, laughter, consistency etc- be gone!
Thanks! It’s super hard but I need to learn from my past mistakes. What’s funny is he knows someone I used to “see” and think he’s a prick. But he’s doing the same behaviour the bloke he thinks a prickWell done for deleting and not chasing! What podcast was it?
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