Yup, even partners who've been casual have made the time to say hello or ask how I was through the day. Especially when I had exams or was going through a difficult time, it was wonderful to have a short text expressing their sympathy or best wishes! Goes a long way, and its something I've always done for partners too.Yeah I feel the same, and when you do start seeing them more in person it doesn’t matter so much, but in the early stages I feel it does. Like a good morning text, good night etc. People may have held things down without phones but phones play a big part in people’s lives now. Yes leave him to text you tomorrow which I’m sure he will. All my previous partners or even just people I’ve spoken to have generally been good texters so I’d find it hard to adjust to someone who wasn’t I think. I was texting a guy at the start of joining these threads who literally sent me one text a day. For about 2 weeks. I couldn’t cope with it lol and like u say the convo has died by the time they reply!
If it helps, there's a chance half of those marriages will end in divorce - or just a very unhappy couple. So many people still rush into settling down before they've even had a chance to discover their own wants and desires!! I've talked to a lot of people aged 50+ and most have regretted parts of, or their whole marriage. One even said that they got married at 21 (my age, terrifying) to the first woman they set eyes on, and later had this extreme urge to explore their sexuality. Married people also lose a lot of their friends or face a sort of emptiness that comes from seemingly having it all, and yet not being happy. Loneliness within a couple hurts far, far more than singledom.I’m actually in the process of setting up a book club for single women because I’m over it all.
I had dinner with a few couples yesterday, and whilst it was lovely I’m getting rather tired of the idea that you’re somehow not good enough / not normal simply because you can’t seem to find a suitable partner.
All my friends are moving forward towards marriage and babies and it’s making me realise I want to spend more time with likeminded people.
I am still on the apps, but I’m not going to let my life revolve around finding the right person. Dating is too exhausting to be thinking of all day every day. It’s so time consuming and nerve wracking.
Oh god, not the negging (puke emoji). Gross!! Good thing he admitted he was a silly twit before you had the misfortune of sleeping with him :O@Bagpuss7 I have shared this before but I went on a date with someone and he said "You're not bad looking but your arse is too flat & your lips are too thin". I mean ... If that doesn't sum up rude, entitled, immature, asshole I don't know what does!?
Maybe thought I'd be a Kardashian clone.
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