@Belle123 @DollyDiamondxo - I know! I could almost have forgiven not bringing them up. I’m very protective of my daughter so I try to figure people out before I mention her and in the early days very much don’t mention her gender. And when she is mentioned I make it very clear that they won’t be meeting her for a LONG time. Recent ex only did very briefly when he was dropping something off and didn’t realise she was here/I didn’t know he was coming. Have I mentioned we only live five mins apart now
but to just outright say you were childless and then talk about the woman whose pregnant as if both her and baby are inconvenient. I did avoid the temptation to ask him if he used protection. And yes he is blocked!
Every weekend is a lot, especially if it’s all weekend? I would just make the plans you want to. No one ever has to be constantly available to anyone. It’s so healthy to maintain your own life. You don’t have to answer his messages, or at least can say ‘I’m drained right now, I’ll text you later.And if you’re torn right now, you definitely need time and space to process that. It’s hard once the doubt sets in. It’s not always how you’re really feeling, especially if there’s lots going on. To be fair, he might think you mean physical space unless you communicated otherwise obviously. But it’s not unreasonable of you in the slightest to say you need some time alone. That’s so normal. Everyone needs time to recharge.