Hey lovelies, loving the new thread title! Not posted for a while & not sure if this is the right place for this- but after some advice/reassurance. TW- domestic abuse. I've had a bit of an evening of it- been at a friends & her boyfriends, had dinner & a few drinks. Somehow, a conversation about anal (!) has led to a massive argument between my friend & her bf- I've seen for a long time that he is very controlling and he doesn't like that I'm single and she's friends with me. Anyway it escalated to him texting her abusive messages whilst we were sat downstairs chatting as girls do. He said we were both slags & that I was telling her to talk to men & showing her cocks on tinder?! Because she was on whatsapp he thought she was talking to men- he checks when she's online. They then had a huge row, he started throwing stuff at her/me, I tried to calm it down, he called me a hag to my face etc & to leave the house- I obviously couldn't leave my friend at this point, and told him if he carried on I'd call police. He didn't stop so I ended up calling the police cos I didn't know what else to do. They were pretty
tit tbh and didn't do much when they arrived- were gone within 5 mins as they said it was just a verbal argument. I'm now stuck in the house with them STILL arguing, and my biggest concern is that I've fucked my friendship up- he will never allow me round the house again, or her to go out with/see me, and I feel like I've trapped her even more in this abusive relationship
![Sad but relieved face :disappointed_relieved: 😥](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f625.png)
I feel so so guilty/bad for calling the police and potentially making things worse
![Disappointed face :disappointed: 😞](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f61e.png)
don't know if I did the right thing and how to move forward with this now- I'm worried my friend will hate me for intervening
![Disappointed face :disappointed: 😞](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f61e.png)
So sorry if this an overshare!