Even if he misses you, what's the point, he's not around so you can't pursue anything.
Plus if you ask, he probably will say yes as this will make you stick around. I know all the tricks in the book.
Even if he misses you, what's the point, he's not around so you can't pursue anything.I kind of want to know why he keeps reaching out.
I kind of want to know if he likes me and misses me. Is this very childish?
I am tempted to ask.
Maybe I need to join one of ATV's challenges to get over this.
Well ..I kind of want to know why he keeps reaching out.
I kind of want to know if he likes me and misses me. Is this very childish?
I am tempted to ask.
Maybe I need to join one of ATV's challenges to get over this.
Well I imagine he likes the attention you give him as much as you seem to enjoy the attention he gives you ! Clearly whatever game he is playing you are an active and willing participant too !I kind of want to know why he keeps reaching out.
I kind of want to know if he likes me and misses me. Is this very childish?
I am tempted to ask.
Maybe I need to join one of ATV's challenges to get over this.
He definitely would have wanted you to wear a strap on!!Oh my fucking god guys…..last night I went on a date with a man who looked like a normal kind man in his profile. He worked as helping reform young offenders….all good so I thought.
He was a complete fucking prick. An INCEL! He actually said…the problem with society is feminism as it teaches women to be men and men to be women. Dick. He also blamed single mothers for the amount of young offenders….I was like NO, don’t you think some of the blame should go to the dads that fucked off. I then said. Anyway, I am a feminist, leaning towards the radical end…so we’re not going to get on. And I upped and left!
Small victory was that I was looking hot and I could tell he fancied me like mad! Hahaha….LOSER!
I think it’s worrying if he’s infecting these young men’s minds with that nonsense: “Don’t worry son, you’re not at fault for your crime, it’s your mum’s fault. She’s tried to be a father figure and failed because she is not a man. Men are supreme beings, women are less than men.”Oh my fucking god guys…..last night I went on a date with a man who looked like a normal kind man in his profile. He worked as helping reform young offenders….all good so I thought.
He was a complete fucking prick. An INCEL! He actually said…the problem with society is feminism as it teaches women to be men and men to be women. Dick. He also blamed single mothers for the amount of young offenders….I was like NO, don’t you think some of the blame should go to the dads that fucked off. I then said. Anyway, I am a feminist, leaning towards the radical end…so we’re not going to get on. And I upped and left!
Small victory was that I was looking hot and I could tell he fancied me like mad! Hahaha….LOSER!
It was a total shocker. His profile was quite limited but he was 53 years old and seemed nice…no red flags. The only thing I can say that was potentially dodgey was that we only chatted on bumble for a bit, before he suggested meeting, as he wasn’t a great texter. He suggested a nice pop-up bar local to me that also did food. I was looking forward to maybe making a new friend….how wrong I was.I think it’s worrying if he’s infecting these young men’s minds with that nonsense: “Don’t worry son, you’re not at fault for your crime, it’s your mum’s fault. She’s tried to be a father figure and failed because she is not a man. Men are supreme beings, women are less than men.”
Bunny was this a total shocker or did he give any clues away first? How quickly did you meet him from first chat to date? Absolutely not blaming you for the fact he’s a dickhead, but wondered if you might be able to weed some of these ones out with a bit more chat/tactical conversation?
That's effing appalling. Holy SHIT. How did the topic come up?Oh my fucking god guys…..last night I went on a date with a man who looked like a normal kind man in his profile. He worked as helping reform young offenders….all good so I thought.
He was a complete fucking prick. An INCEL! He actually said…the problem with society is feminism as it teaches women to be men and men to be women. Dick. He also blamed single mothers for the amount of young offenders….I was like NO, don’t you think some of the blame should go to the dads that fucked off. I then said. Anyway, I am a feminist, leaning towards the radical end…so we’re not going to get on. And I upped and left!
Small victory was that I was looking hot and I could tell he fancied me like mad! Hahaha….LOSER!
Never mind, he deleted his accountAfter my semi breakdown this weekend, I'm feeling great.
I was talking to a guy on Bumble over the weekend. He's hot! The chat has got flirty and sex was mentioned a few times. Normally I end these kind of chats very quickly but I am enjoying this.
I assume I just have to take it at face value and it is just a bit of fun he is looking for? Given my current frame of mind, this would suit me.
These men often appear again and again. Makes me think they’re using it for an ego boost or their partner is away for the weekend and they’re taking advantage. Otherwise I don’t understand why if you felt it was time to delete the app you’d not want to keep chatting to someone even via email if you weren’t sure you wanted to swap phone numbers.Never mind, he deleted his account
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Such silly behaviour, if you don't want to talk to someone just unmatched, no need to be dramatic and delete the profile.These men often appear again and again. Makes me think they’re using it for an ego boost or their partner is away for the weekend and they’re taking advantage. Otherwise I don’t understand why if you felt it was time to delete the app you’d not want to keep chatting to someone even via email if you weren’t sure you wanted to swap phone numbers.
I knowErrr.... he was being a perv!!!
There's something odd about that... almost accusatory saying "just picking holes in everything"..... just it's something that would come up whenever there was an argument like its your fault? I may be reading it wrong but...Waaah I have such a weird situation!
I had a date arranged with a guy this evening, we’ve been speaking today but the conversation ended like this. (For context we’ve realised we both live in the same apartment building, but I’m not wildly taken aback by how it’s ran and I also didn’t want to steal the tv stand to take to my new house)
How confusing! I know i could’ve messaged and asked what time or where etc, but I am not going to because I think it’s common courtesy if you invite someone out, that you do that part. It doesn’t matter to me if we don’t speak again, I guess I’m just posting to say is this normal behaviour?
I’m annoyed because I’ve been out of the house all day at work and then I was dealing with a gas issue at my new house and I still managed to come back home and put a bit of make up on. I also didn’t buy any food because we were meant to go for a meal so now I’ve just sat eating beans on toast with my full face of slap on
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As someone who loves logistics and having a concrete plan, who’s dating someone the COMPLETE opposite….I feel your pain! It’s so infuriating sat wondering what/when you’re going somewhere. Has he been in touch yet?Waaah I have such a weird situation!
I had a date arranged with a guy this evening, we’ve been speaking today but the conversation ended like this. (For context we’ve realised we both live in the same apartment building, but I’m not wildly taken aback by how it’s ran and I also didn’t want to steal the tv stand to take to my new house)
How confusing! I know i could’ve messaged and asked what time or where etc, but I am not going to because I think it’s common courtesy if you invite someone out, that you do that part. It doesn’t matter to me if we don’t speak again, I guess I’m just posting to say is this normal behaviour?
I’m annoyed because I’ve been out of the house all day at work and then I was dealing with a gas issue at my new house and I still managed to come back home and put a bit of make up on. I also didn’t buy any food because we were meant to go for a meal so now I’ve just sat eating beans on toast with my full face of slap on
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Thats kind of what I thought too, but I was like am I reading too much into itThere's something odd about that... almost accusatory saying "just picking holes in everything"..... just it's something that would come up whenever there was an argument like its your fault? I may be reading it wrong but...
He still hasn’t! So so weird. I need to know a plan too it makes me happy and I can finish off the other 1000 things I have to do in the day in time that way. I won’t go even if he says now, I’m going to have a brandy and an early nightAs someone who loves logistics and having a concrete plan, who’s dating someone the COMPLETE opposite….I feel your pain! It’s so infuriating sat wondering what/when you’re going somewhere. Has he been in touch yet?
What I’ve realised is some people genuinely don’t think like I do. Sometimes you’ve got to spell it out to people. I’d just ask if I were you (and you haven’t heard yet) even if you say, just planning logistics for this evening, what time are we meeting?
I don’t know how people get by without a planI’m the kind of person who likes to know what when and where as early as possible
let us know if he gets in touch!!
I think you're a winner in this situation it just smells off to me. The universe is doing you a favour here so run with it!Thats kind of what I thought too, but I was like am I reading too much into ithe also sent the attached before he said that.
Also i havent just sat slagging the place off, only given my opinion when it’s the topic of conversation. When I moved in there was a moth infestation, I can’t close the blinds in my living room because some are missing, one of my windows is locked shut because it’s dangerous, the toilet leaked under the tiles for months. I think it’d be a bit weird if I was like omg dream homeI haven’t even gone in to that much detail on what was wrong with it when I moved in I just said I wasn’t impressed View attachment 854409
He still hasn’t! So so weird. I need to know a plan too it makes me happy and I can finish off the other 1000 things I have to do in the day in time that way. I won’t go even if he says now, I’m going to have a brandy and an early nightI feel like one of the ‘losers’ on dinner date who don’t get picked for the real date and have a ready meal delivered to their door
He has me angryOh god well here is the responseI really can’t be bothered today anymore, I’m tired. I was thinking of going on Sunday, I have things to do on Sunday but I might be able to be free by this time of the evening. What would you all do?View attachment 854498
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