curious to people’s opinions on if joel pays for the kids friends eg ava chloe pearl etc to go on holidays with them? The first time fair enough because they’re obviously minted but coming from parent of those kids perspective surely u wouldnt feel okay knowing someone elses family has paid for your child so many times. I can imagine theyre not in the position to pay for their kid to go on 20 holidays a year
I’m guessing they pay every time for the girls friends. I know they’re rich so they have to money to pay for a lot of people so to them it’s not a big deal and if I was rich I would want to treat family or close friends to things but it wouldn’t be something I would get into a habit of doing for friends I’m not close to or friends of my children because I would be worried of my kids being used for their money and other people only wanting to be their friend and stick around because of the fact the children live a rich lifestyle and also dad v girls have the social media popularity which if we are being honest is a very big reason why Ava and other people in the girls lives never say no to anything , happily accept freebies all the time and constantly are hanging around wanting to get in on the social media popularity. Not saying all the girls friends are like that there are some friends who don’t give fake vibes.
In one way people could say “who would say no to free holidays?” and “of course Ava will be getting followers and wanting to be an influencer like Kaci cause they’re friends” but if I was Kaci or if I had a child who was growing up rich I would be always thinking in the back of my mind if you weren’t rich and didn’t have a huge following would people actually be interested in being your friend because you could have the nicest personality and be a really good friend to people but there are people who won’t pay attention to that cause they will sadly be more interested in your rich lifestyle and what they can gain from being your friend.
I know they’ve stayed friends all these years so I’m not saying they don’t have a real friendship I’m just saying I am still suspicious of Ava or people like that. There’s something off about her especially when Ava and Kaci told the story of how they became good friends I thought there was a lot of things off and sad about that story like it didn’t seem like a genuine friendship the way it developed. I know people can change and mature and become a good friend but if you had no interest in me , weren’t close to me and thought I was weird before I was rich but now that I’m suddenly getting popular on social media with my family you now want to be close to me I would think that’s odd.
I think it makes someone look like a user if they constantly take freebies from you and if you’re constantly offering a friend freebies it can look like you’re buying friends and that can get you used easily. If I had a child who’s friend had lots of money and was always wanting to pay for my child taking them on holidays I wouldn’t want my child or me to look bad like we’re using people and only interested in being around them because of their rich lifestyle so I don’t know if I’d be comfortable with allowing a child to take that many freebies it feels kind of wrong even if the family offering are genuinely being nice I think getting into a habit like that can make someone look like a user and that’s not a good look.