Nicest group on tattleThey do! Despite what people say we are a good bunch! I love this group![]()
Well I’ve just rejoined CC to have my say. I found that totally unfair and that Miss Scarlett seems like a cuntThankyou just having a very tough few months but I’m ok, I understand why people were hurt at what I said as I should have clarified first time![]()
Honestly? I don't think you should do it. It's grating on you and it's only been a day. This may bubble up and up and when things start happening like hen do, dresses etc if you're anything like me you'll get wound up by the fact you're paying for something you don't really want to do.I’m so pissed off at the minute. Basically, my school friend who I’ve hardly seen anything of in the last 5 years or spoken to asked me to be a bridesmaid, she turned up with her boyfriend (who is a cheating creep and I dislike) and asked me outright so how could I say no?! We drifted about 5 years ago after I split with my ex because her and the other members of our friend group didn’t really support me, make an effort or want to do anything. At this point none of them had kids or anything really strenuous in their lives and it bugged me because I’d always dropped everything for them so I sort of moved on and made other friends and then hardly seen them since apart from an odd forced night out and bits of messages here and there.
None of them have even met my partner and I’ve been with him for 3 years and to be honest I quite like my new life. How awkward would it be for him at the wedding when he knows no one and I’m a bridesmaid?! The hen do has been booked. Abroad!!!! It’s cost me £600, £500 for my bit and then we’ve split the brides cost between us. I’m absolutely livid I’ll be honest because I have so much better things to be spending my money on and I KNOW none of them would do the same for me. It’s all spiralled now and if I backed out now it’d make me look a complete cow but I can’t help feeling so aggrieved about the whole thing.
She messaged me after she asked me and said I didn’t know if you would say yeah because we’re not that close… It makes me resentful because why put me in that position then?! She’s not got a lot of friends and neither has he so I can’t help but feel like I’m just being used for numbers but it’s so annoying. I genuinely don’t think I would even invite them if I were to get married because my new friend group is big enough and all of our partners mix too. I would also think about who I’m inviting and how comfortable they would be because I’d want everyone to enjoy their day - so like I wouldn’t invite a couple of people from my new job because it’d just be them kind of thing.
I probably will enjoy it when I’m there but it’s just grating on me.
Someone in her family was unwell not too long ago and she kept making a point of how her kids etc were struggling. I don’t know if it was just badly unwell or a death in the end, I stopped paying attention. Then she’s had all her medical issues herself and several appointments for different issues. Now there’s someone else who’s unwell. She must be seriously unlucky to have all that happen with a couple monthsI thought it was convenient too. I’d like to think no one would pretend a family member is seriously ill though so I am giving the benefit of the doubt on that one. But it is noted. If it happens again though, that’s no coincidence.
when a load of us first joined a lot of them were saying they love how supportive we are and they wanted the same there. I think because of that they have in turn spilled a lot about their lives and problems in order to generate that support system. And it’s getting too much now that they know the ins and outs of each others lives. I wonder are they forgetting that they’ve only spoke to each other since about 2 or so months ago?
Sazza that is amazing. As a fellow mum of an autistic child, the pride and the joy you’re feeling will be incredible and overwhelming. Those little steps always feel like massive jumps. Celebrate every single one, I think I cried everytime we had a new food he ate because it was such an achievement that people would probably think so what, but to us it’s an absolute milestoneToday has been amazing, my 5 year old who is Autistic and goes to a special needs school said his first ever word todayand it was mummy
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This is why I love tattle!You didn’t fuck it from what I saw, your text/tone was just misinterpreted. Happened to me several timesI’m so grateful we all draw a line as quick as anything starts
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Congratulations! That’s mega! Huge achievement & especially with this stupid cost of living crisis. Happy new homeCan I share some good news? I'm chuffed to bits that we've bought our absolute dream home and are moving imminently.
My friends in real life are really disinterested in my news and make me feel bad for being excited so I've had to hold it in quite a bit. We all came from council estates with parents on benefits and so do the whole 'who does she think she is' routine. I'm still common as muck (I love corned beef ffs!) but i wish someone would just be pleased for me. My parents have both passed away and I have a NC relationship with my siblings