Fuming!! Arsenal bottled itRoll on 4pm Sunday. Already told the husband what I want for tea. As it's going to be a late one getting home.?
I’d cut ties with her if it was me. She’s not a friend, she’s a fair weather aquaintance. I’ve had similar where people would message me to “check in” but it was always a few days before they conveniently needed a favour. I noticed the pattern & I removed their number but they carried on pretending to care/I need a favour routine despite me ignoring them.Tattlers after some honest thoughts. I have a friend who is a JW (when it suits her) she is forever ending conversations with suttle JW comments like don't worry you miss Mum as you will see her in paradise. I don't acknowledge her but when she is upset she misses her mum I fully support her. We now live about an hour away, and she had 'booked me in' to call over and have tea out and a catch just as she wanted to see what I have done on the house new kitchen/decoration/furniture and my new 2 cats (had them 15months) etc... she wants everyone to be free when she isn't doing anything JW and off work, she works part time (no issues with that) I work full time/5 days, I booked a early finish so could have a few quality hours together. Yet she cancelled mid morning as she wanted to 'lose her Ikea cherry' she wants face time call later but I have now planned in my mind to clean house top to bottom so can spend some quality time with my husband tomorrow. He wont be home till after 11pm tonight as fishing in Scotland and has been on nights the last 8 weeks. She is now moaning saying why can't I FT as I need to know she misses me. I am so done in with it all, and despite a very long friendship I am thinking she is just a part time friend ticking a box to say she has seen me. Hope this makes some sort of sense as I am between the sarcastic response and a ghosting response.
She sounds draining, personally I would cut ties. She sounds self obsorbed and isn’t a real friendTattlers after some honest thoughts. I have a friend who is a JW (when it suits her) she is forever ending conversations with suttle JW comments like don't worry you miss Mum as you will see her in paradise. I don't acknowledge her but when she is upset she misses her mum I fully support her. We now live about an hour away, and she had 'booked me in' to call over and have tea out and a catch just as she wanted to see what I have done on the house new kitchen/decoration/furniture and my new 2 cats (had them 15months) etc... she wants everyone to be free when she isn't doing anything JW and off work, she works part time (no issues with that) I work full time/5 days, I booked a early finish so could have a few quality hours together. Yet she cancelled mid morning as she wanted to 'lose her Ikea cherry' she wants face time call later but I have now planned in my mind to clean house top to bottom so can spend some quality time with my husband tomorrow. He wont be home till after 11pm tonight as fishing in Scotland and has been on nights the last 8 weeks. She is now moaning saying why can't I FT as I need to know she misses me. I am so done in with it all, and despite a very long friendship I am thinking she is just a part time friend ticking a box to say she has seen me. Hope this makes some sort of sense as I am between the sarcastic response and a ghosting response.
Seems like she only misses you when it’s convenient for her.Tattlers after some honest thoughts. I have a friend who is a JW (when it suits her) she is forever ending conversations with suttle JW comments like don't worry you miss Mum as you will see her in paradise. I don't acknowledge her but when she is upset she misses her mum I fully support her. We now live about an hour away, and she had 'booked me in' to call over and have tea out and a catch just as she wanted to see what I have done on the house new kitchen/decoration/furniture and my new 2 cats (had them 15months) etc... she wants everyone to be free when she isn't doing anything JW and off work, she works part time (no issues with that) I work full time/5 days, I booked a early finish so could have a few quality hours together. Yet she cancelled mid morning as she wanted to 'lose her Ikea cherry' she wants face time call later but I have now planned in my mind to clean house top to bottom so can spend some quality time with my husband tomorrow. He wont be home till after 11pm tonight as fishing in Scotland and has been on nights the last 8 weeks. She is now moaning saying why can't I FT as I need to know she misses me. I am so done in with it all, and despite a very long friendship I am thinking she is just a part time friend ticking a box to say she has seen me. Hope this makes some sort of sense as I am between the sarcastic response and a ghosting response.
Yeah and they becoming friends on fb and gonna arrange to meet. I think it could backfires and also one of Aimee’s huns requested one of them (so now she’s gonna know who one of them are) it’s not a good ideaI don’t want to say this on Aimee’s thread because it’s clearly watched like a hawk but I wish those on CC would be careful. A lot of them are now following Jo and I think it’s a recipe for disaster. Apparently she’s speaking to an ex of Aimee’s and she was supposed to be going to Barcelona which is coincidentally the same place Aimee is going to but now last minute she can’t go
There’s a reason we are all anon and I really hope this doesn’t backfire on those who are genuinely nice over there
What the hell?? They've added each other on fb? What's happening? I don't go on there or read there because I find it all too much and at times a bit disturbing tbhI don’t want to say this on Aimee’s thread because it’s clearly watched like a hawk but I wish those on CC would be careful. A lot of them are now following Jo and I think it’s a recipe for disaster. Apparently she’s speaking to an ex of Aimee’s and she was supposed to be going to Barcelona which is coincidentally the same place Aimee is going to but now last minute she can’t go
There’s a reason we are all anon and I really hope this doesn’t backfire on those who are genuinely nice over there
They’re adding each other on TikTok to then arrange a group on fb. But they’re all giving clues to their TikTok names and they’re all following Jos real acct. I can see it backfiring esp as Jo seems to give too much away about her lifeWhat the hell?? They've added each other on fb? What's happening? I don't go on there or read there because I find it all too much and at times a bit disturbing tbh
Her behaviour is martha at times.I've seen this coming for a while with some of them " over there"
Its really disturbing, and if that Jo is genuine, there's more to it than her having upset her as a kid/teenager...her behaviour is bizarre to say the least!
Oh my god that is just bizarreThey’re adding each other on TikTok to then arrange a group on fb. But they’re all giving clues to their TikTok names and they’re all following Jos real acct. I can see it backfiring esp as Jo seems to give too much away about her life
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Her behaviour is martha at times.
She’s reported to dvla but I think the rest is going too far. The dvla is a genuine concern of many of us, the rest chatting to hippo, contacting police friends; radio shout outs & now trying to gain real life friends from that forum is a bit ott. And I don’t believe it’s because of her autism/adhd I believe she’s lonely and a bit of a fantastist
It's completely unhinged. We all don't like Aimless but this behaviour trying to get to her is completely obsessive and quite worrying. Trying to make friends off the back of hating someone is cult-like behaviour.The thing for me is and maybe I sound crazy here but I’d feel I was disrespecting my husband by talking to a very random man all to try and find out information on someone I hate. Do I believe Jo actually is speaking to Aimee’s ex? No but if she is then it’s concerning and her husband should really be pulling her aside and having a harsh word
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