Anyone here young and immunocompromised? I’m in the severely immunocompromised category due to being on a biologic for Crohn’s disease.
The Omicron variant has tipped my mental health over the edge, the only advice I’ve seen directed towards vulnerable/immunocompromised is that we’re more likely to get severely ill if we catch it even if we’ve had all vaccinations (I’ve had 3) and pretty much telling people to not see vulnerable relatives indoors especially over Christmas so non directly telling us to avoid people..
I’m so fed up, I’m barely leaving the house and am not looking forward to Christmas at all. I wish there was a way of knowing what my risk was compared to someone not immunocompromised my age (I’m 30), in some countries my medication is almost considered a benefit if I caught covid as it prevents the immune system overdrive but in the UK I’m considered CEV and the most at risk.
My illness doesn’t give me any day to day symptoms as it’s under control so pre covid I’d be out partying, going abroad and doing everything anyone my age would be doing. I feel like I’ve been placed into a group which includes really elderly people and where my illness has never held me back it’s now my biggest hinderance. I’ve had enough of being called vulnerable and hate that it’s assumed vulnerable = sick and infirm. I’m in a senior position in my career and before covid know one even knew I had a condition, now I’m constantly reminded that I’m vulnerable or disabled when I would never have considered myself as this. This is also massively effecting my mental health.
I feel like I just need to risk it to improve my mental health but the news and government are constantly freaking me out over what might happen if I caught it.
Sorry for the rant, I’m truly at my wits end, I’ve lost so much of myself and feel like I live to work. What’s the point?
Hi, I’m so sorry you feel like this. I understand. I am in my late 30s and have an autoimmune condition which puts me in the vulnerable category. I am very nervous about getting sick, but that is also in part because I was only diagnosed earlier this year, so it would also be my first time dealing with illness and my condition.
I have decided that I will do whatever makes me feel comfortable and causes me the least stress. For example, I am happy to see my friends and family at home or in their homes, but I’d probably not feel comfortable meeting at a busy indoor venue. I have had a few long weekends off work, and have been Christmas shopping on Mondays, which are quieter. I prefer to drive than take public transport.
this isn’t a forever solution, but it is helping me deal with my anxieties, as well as balance my desire to avoid illness (for me this is of any kind, a cold, flu, or COVID) while not being a recluse at home.
Like you, I have a senior position at work, and I certainly don’t feel frail or disabled! I find it upsetting that I find myself in the vulnerable category...sometimes I feel upset when people say things like it’s only the old people or vulnerable that can get very ill and die. Because that includes me…Ive always lived a healthy lifestyle and my condition is just really bad luck!!
Not really any advice, but sometimes it’s good to know we’re not the only ones…!