She has posted before sayin not everyone gets how hard it is. I get it, I totally get it. My son has been in intensive care 3 times in last year, he has needs very similar to m. And his epilepsy is life threatening. In 8 years we had 5 nights to ourselves. We now get a little respite. But we would never leave the country. He's left with people who are trained what to do. This is basic parenting. They should be disgusted! The joy in her face cos she's goin away! Knowin the disruption and lack of routine will effect m. But she's ok, so fk it x