I think this is ONE OF the things that’s so unlikeable about her. She does nothing for anyone else. She wouldn’t help anyone else if her life depended on it. She’s spoilt, entitled, selfish and rotten.
Fortunately, I’ve healthy children but I would never dream of leaving them as much as she leaves M. Nobody would! For a start, people cannot afford to and they WORK, which is an alien concept to Toni. My children are my life. Yes I have my hobbies, interests and relationships with friends, but my children and their care, health and happiness are my responsibility, nobody else’s. She’s not a mother to those children and hasn’t the first clue about parenting.