To be honest, if she wants to be ‘real’ that’s fine too, but be clean. Clean your floor that your posting, turn your knickers round so that people can’t see the marks (if not for Instagram then your flipping kids) there’s a big difference between presenting as normal, chaotic mess and scummy and dirty.She's really making her brand the slummiest of slummy mummies. Yes having kids and work and other people's lists to copy and paste involves letting things go from time to time but there's a difference between not living in a show home and wallowing in filth. I find the whole ultra slummy mummy thing (and the FOD style of hapless dad but he's obviously another thread) such a put upon act excruciating. I have two small kids and I manage to pop any heavily soiled clothing in the washing machine without the need to have it littering my bathroom for days on end and documenting it online.