Catching up on this thread and I love everything about this commentMarion ...where do I start.
It's a wedding, not a funeral so ditch the black tie.
If you ARE going for a satin lapel evening jacket black tie look then it should be a bow tie anyway.
Also ... blue ? was that the jacket you wore to your audition for Pontins.
Tiebar - never wear a tie bar wider than your tie, even quick google would have told you that one.
And lastly why do look as though you are wearing a padded velvet headband