I personally don't understand when people complain that they've agreed no presents and then receive no presentsStarting this off. So me and husband said no presents, but I got him some pyjamas, a couple of jumpers, some sweets and some trainers. He literally got me nothing. Luckily I bought and wrapped myself up a box of chocolates as our daughter was really sad that I didn't get anything.
I concur. @Hastaggifted why did you buy him loads of things if you said no presents? I’m quite a minimal gifter but that’s a lot of stuff, regardless if you said no presents. He listened to you!I personally don't understand when people complain that they've agreed no presents and then receive no presents
The one time a husband does as his wife asks and he’s in trouble!I concur. @Hastaggifted why did you buy him loads of things if you said no presents? I’m quite a minimal gifter but that’s a lot of stuff, regardless if you said no presents. He listened to you!
Hope you’re doing ok. There’s lots of us alone this Christmas, you’re not the only one xI tried to not buy anything for one my brothers and his 4 kids after last year but caved last minute and got them all stuff. Bought my other brother and his kid and dogs quite a lots of stuff . I’m vulnerable so alone this Christmas. They picked it up from outside my door, didn’t say thank you or anything and honestly presents mean nothing but the fact they didn’t even give me a card from my nieces and nephews broke me. As soon as I shut the door I burst into tears . Am I just weird or greedy wishing for a card?
Anyway I hope you all have a gorgeous Christmas
Agreed! I’m alone too but I’m gonna get lit and watch eastenders LOL. I loved my prezzies today tooHope you’re doing ok. There’s lots of us alone this Christmas, you’re not the only one x
Absolutely not. It’s those little things that mean more than anything. Bless youI tried to not buy anything for one my brothers and his 4 kids after last year but caved last minute and got them all stuff. Bought my other brother and his kid and dogs quite a lots of stuff . I’m vulnerable so alone this Christmas. They picked it up from outside my door, didn’t say thank you or anything and honestly presents mean nothing but the fact they didn’t even give me a card from my nieces and nephews broke me. As soon as I shut the door I burst into tears . Am I just weird or greedy wishing for a card?
Anyway I hope you all have a gorgeous Christmas
Exactly. Why not set a budget if you don't want to spend loads, just say we both get each other something up to X amountI personally don't understand when people complain that they've agreed no presents and then receive no presents
Thank you lovely. Merry Christmas to you too, I don’t know if it’s still the case now but she used to openly tell us she’d got given things for free and we’d used to quietly tell her that you can be too honest.Merry Christmas! Hope the rest of your presents are better!
By the way, I volunteer in a charity shop and we do not get any stuff free. If we want something we have to buy it like any other customer and it’s noted down in a record book under our name. If something comes in that we unpack and decide we want, the manager has to value it before we buy it.
When people give donations it’s to help the charity not the volunteers, I think your woman is a bit dodgy if she’s really acquiring stuff for free.
Xx
You’re not being weird or greedy at all, I hope you’re ok lovelyI tried to not buy anything for one my brothers and his 4 kids after last year but caved last minute and got them all stuff. Bought my other brother and his kid and dogs quite a lots of stuff . I’m vulnerable so alone this Christmas. They picked it up from outside my door, didn’t say thank you or anything and honestly presents mean nothing but the fact they didn’t even give me a card from my nieces and nephews broke me. As soon as I shut the door I burst into tears . Am I just weird or greedy wishing for a card?
Anyway I hope you all have a gorgeous Christmas
Sorry to hear that, I agree they could have at least done a card from the kids.I tried to not buy anything for one my brothers and his 4 kids after last year but caved last minute and got them all stuff. Bought my other brother and his kid and dogs quite a lots of stuff . I’m vulnerable so alone this Christmas. They picked it up from outside my door, didn’t say thank you or anything and honestly presents mean nothing but the fact they didn’t even give me a card from my nieces and nephews broke me. As soon as I shut the door I burst into tears . Am I just weird or greedy wishing for a card?
Anyway I hope you all have a gorgeous Christmas