Christmas present moans

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I tried to not buy anything for one my brothers and his 4 kids after last year but caved last minute and got them all stuff. Bought my other brother and his kid and dogs quite a lots of stuff . I’m vulnerable so alone this Christmas. They picked it up from outside my door, didn’t say thank you or anything and honestly presents mean nothing but the fact they didn’t even give me a card from my nieces and nephews broke me. As soon as I shut the door I burst into tears 😭. Am I just weird or greedy wishing for a card?

Anyway I hope you all have a gorgeous Christmas♥
No you’re not weird or greedy at all. This is a topic a bit too close to my heart as it reminds me so much of my one uncle and cousins and how they are to Mum. Mum puts a lot of thought into the gifts she buys and doesn’t even get a card herself or a thank you most of the time. In the days when I used to get a present from my uncle he’d have a thank you card before New Year’s Eve. My uncle earns a lot of money but is a tightwad and in my opinion has raised more of life’s takers.

A card is nothing but a simple gesture and every time I looked for Christmas cards in the supermarket this year I saw a load of nice ones for aunts.

Your relatives are very rude and I think next year you should spend the money on something that you’d enjoy!
 
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My mum got me, my other half and children all the same hot water bottle! I don't mean to sound ungrateful but wtf! I could understand it, if we were struggling financially and struggling to heat up the house, but thankfully we live comfortably.
 
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every year i get a dove set from an elderly aunt (extended family so rarely see her) and i've been highly allergic to dove since i was a child, least it was a small one unlike last years giant hamper with every single product dove sold (i always donate them to a woman's refuge so they don't get wasted. i got makeup which i don't really wear that often, i got an electric toothbrush and it had the wrong plug on it, so i have had to order a adapter for it
 
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every year i get a dove set from an elderly aunt (extended family so rarely see her) and i've been highly allergic to dove since i was a child, least it was a small one unlike last years giant hamper with every single product dove sold (i always donate them to a woman's refuge so they don't get wasted. i got makeup which i don't really wear that often, i got an electric toothbrush and it had the wrong plug on it, so i have had to order a adapter for it
Damn I would frickin love a dove set I’m allergic to most things so can sympathise but not dove!!

My mum got me, my other half and children all the same hot water bottle! I don't mean to sound ungrateful but wtf! I could understand it, if we were struggling financially and struggling to heat up the house, but thankfully we live comfortably.
I associate hot water bottles with women for period pains haha! I wouldn’t just do one randomly unless I have period pains then I do it :)
 
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My MIL always buys clothes the wrong size for the kids. Always.

This year she’s outdone herself and bought our 7 (almost 8) year old aged 6-7 clothes. She’s a beanpole but she’s long, so the t-shirt is tiny on her, and the trousers and tights are too short. MIL told her over FaceTime she’d just have to ‘do some extra dance classes’ to fit into it.

Livid isn’t even the word.
 
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Thankfully I didn’t get too many crappy pressies this year…. Although I got pjs 2 sizes too big from my mum…. Again 🤣
I got 'upgraded' a dress size from my sister and from medium to large by my Auntie 🤣

My most random present was 4 pastry forks from one of my best friends. I'm the least cheffy person ever 🤷‍♀️
 
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My mother in law has accidentally gotten me weed thinking it’s tea maybe? I haven’t asked her about it yet 😂 but I hope she thought it was tea
this is my favourite 😂 where would she even get the weed thinking it's tea?? her dealer must be in all sorts of businesses. 😂
 
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I hate to sound ungrateful, but my goodness, the shower sets. Specifically Baylis and Harding, I find them so impersonal. I can’t use them because of my skin conditions yet people still buy them for me. I literally have 4. They’ll be heading straight to the womens refuge.

I despise presents for the sake of presents as does my sibling and my parents have only just stopped buying us rit we don’t want last year. It’s a lot better when people are honest - if we want something we will say but if we don’t please don’t waste your money.

throughout the last week I have been inundated with gifts from people at work - I’m a cleaner and each different shift has got me stuff. I appreciate the sentiment but I have regifted absolutely everything as I don’t drink and I am dairy free - I haven’t been given a single thing I could actually eat/drink even if I wanted to. Obviously I wasn’t going to tell them when I knew I was accepting a pointless gift but it does frustrate me, they could have saved their money and their time.

sounds a little silly to say this but it is a little sad I’ve been given so many things and I have nothing of it, makes me feel a little down. Even though I know I said I don’t like presents for the sake of them it’s still a bit sad nobody actually knows me, I’ve definitely spoken about going dairy free as it was in the last few months - I’ve spoken to numerous people at work about it
You’re not ungrateful at all. I completely get this, it is upsetting to get gifts when you realise that people don’t “get” or truly know you. It is so wasteful and it makes me angry because I know people will have spent money on them. That’s why I always ask for vouchers to the stores I like (if asked) yet people think this isn’t a “proper” gift. I have no idea why, it’s so frustrating as I see it as wasted money on their part…
 
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My friend mentioned a while ago that she was going to buy my baby an outfit as part of her Christmas present, so I told her what size she’s in now but also suggested getting the next size up as she’s getting big quickly.

Opened her gifts to find a selection of lovely winter clothes in sizes 12-18 and 18-24 months. My baby is 3 months old 😂
 
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My friend mentioned a while ago that she was going to buy my baby an outfit as part of her Christmas present, so I told her what size she’s in now but also suggested getting the next size up as she’s getting big quickly.

Opened her gifts to find a selection of lovely winter clothes in sizes 12-18 and 18-24 months. My baby is 3 months old 😂
I think that’s sweet 🥺 but a bit early, haha!
 
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every year i get a dove set from an elderly aunt (extended family so rarely see her) and i've been highly allergic to dove since i was a child, least it was a small one unlike last years giant hamper with every single product dove sold (i always donate them to a woman's refuge so they don't get wasted. i got makeup which i don't really wear that often, i got an electric toothbrush and it had the wrong plug on it, so i have had to order a adapter for it
Toothbrushes (and electric shavers) always come with that 2-pin plug. UK voltage means only 2-pin sockets are allowed in bathrooms, it’s just a safety thing, not a dig from your gift-giver 👍🏻
 
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My mum got me, my other half and children all the same hot water bottle! I don't mean to sound ungrateful but wtf! I could understand it, if we were struggling financially and struggling to heat up the house, but thankfully we live comfortably.
I love a hot water bottle - I actually got a rechargeable one this year which I’m delighted with 🤣
 
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