My cousin is pregnant by guy she has been dating for 12 weeks. This is the 3rd time it has happened, each with different blokes. They have of course split up because all these men she dates are raving lunatics and the police get involved because they are creeps. Trying to support her is so difficult because she thought it would be different, he’d stay and I just want to scream ‘why are you surprised that this has happened?! Why did you put yourself and your kids in this position?!’ Sorry needed to vent, she’s in her mid 30s, can’t get over how irresponsible she is.