I adore my children wouldn't ever be without them but honestly one has additional needs and whilst he brings far more joy than hardship it's still hard. Watching him master things that have taken him longer than other children though is incredibly rewarding and brings so much fulfilment to my life . That being said my eldest isn't a teenager but thinks they are and my toddler is currently throwing toys around whining because she doesn't like the Ice lollies she chose so swings and roundabouts