I’m not childfree - I have one who I had in my early 20s. I was always going to have 4/5 children (I come from a big family) and saw myself as a ‘Mummy’ type. I’m not. I love my child more than anything, but I’m not a ‘natural’ Mother, and I just couldn’t see myself having any more. My ex has gone on to remarry and have more children, I’m happily in a relationship with someone who already has kids and was sterilised, so even though I’m probably biologically at an age where I still *could* I definitely won’t be having any more.