I'm a late mum, had my first child at 32. So spent all my 20s being asked when I was gonna settle down and have kids. I wasn't sure I wanted them to be honest, I was enjoying my life and independence. Now I have one I'm not sure I want any more. I love my kid, but there is sooo much pressure if you're gonna have another or 'try' for the opposite gender. It took us over a year to fall pregnant and during that time it was stressful and worrying that maybe I'd left it too late. I think everyone should be free to live their lives without the social pressures. So no I'm not child free , I considered it and waited til the right time. Kids are a lot of work so don't make a decision you're not sure on
it's your life! And that first year you really lose your old self , all your priorities are the baby and it's draining at times.