I‘ve done my supermarket shop online since I left home for this reason! Can’t bleeping stand all the kids in supermarkets. Only ever pop in to get the odd thing and try to be out as quickly as possible. Plus it’s freezing cold in there. Not to be rude but it would be my worst nightmare to work in one - imagine hearing screaming kids ALL DAY! It’s bad enough when they’re playing in my neighbours garden.
Also I agree that abusive nasty people love jobs like primary teacher/nursery nurse/carer - you can lord it over vulnerable people and get away with it! Can’t do that in an office, you’d get reported to HR in no time.
Also I agree that abusive nasty people love jobs like primary teacher/nursery nurse/carer - you can lord it over vulnerable people and get away with it! Can’t do that in an office, you’d get reported to HR in no time.
Tbf with the useless men, do you blame them? Half the time they probably didn’t want the kid, plus so often the mum goes full Gollum over the child and not only breastfeeds but does everything else so the dad feels like a useless extra anyway - may as well enjoy yourself. Then they never get the same sort of attachment to the child, find them annoying, spend more time at work and hobbies and the cycle continues.I think some women’s desperation to have a child takes over. Case and point with my oldest friend.
Also I do think it’s hard to find a man who doesn’t have some of these traits. Men get jealous and they also don’t have to change their life. They should but as a mother you have to. Today’s social still puts them emphasis on the mothers as the main cater.