Exactly that. I can relate to older kids as I can talk to them like adults. I can’t seem to revert to kid like behaviour during games or put on the voices etc as I’m ‘supposed to’ I generally speak to all kids the same as I do adults as I don’t know any other way
I think my mum had me because she was lonely and missing ‘something’ and as stated happens, this has caused me a lot of trauma that I’m still working through because she just wasn’t always a good parent and dumped her emotional
tit onto me growing up. She died 4 years ago and it’s only since I’ve understood a lot more of her actions.
I start a new job tomorrow and I discussed yesterday with my partner dropping his daughter home later this afternoon instead of early evening as he usually does so that we could have some time together tonight (I’ll be away for most of this week on training etc)
He agreed to this yesterday when he picked her up at 3pm and today has said, well I don’t just want a 24 hour limit with her so I’ll take her home the usual time. I didn’t react well!
I am fuming at his selfishness to be honest and yes I get his child comes first, but is it too much to ask to spend a couple of extra hours with your partner before they go away for the week?! I gave up my Saturday evening to take us all to a firework display so I feel I’ve done my part at family life, tonight I wanted it to be about me.
Apologies if I sound like a complete brat but I’m just realising that I am always going to be bottom priority in a relationship where a kid is involved aren’t I?! Not sure I can hack it tbh
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