I do think it totally depends on your personality and who you are.
Id never pretend that having kids is 100% joyous because it's not, its tiring and expensive . My kids are little people and I enjoy spending time with them, theyre funny and interesting to me (not to others I imagine ) I enjoy sharing experiences with them. I also love I have a relationship with them that is nothing like what I had with my parents who clearly should have been child free
Babies - just hard work, you get nothing back. They need a lot of input with no reward. Now I have children and not babies its definitely more on my level.
However yes I can totally see the appeal in being CF. Id never dream of telling someone their life hasnt started or not fulfilling because they dont have kids. its such an odd take on things.
The majority of my close friends are CF and Id never dream of criticising that choice. I also dont chat to them about my kids unless they ask, why would they be interested in them? Do talk about my dogs though
Id never pretend that having kids is 100% joyous because it's not, its tiring and expensive . My kids are little people and I enjoy spending time with them, theyre funny and interesting to me (not to others I imagine ) I enjoy sharing experiences with them. I also love I have a relationship with them that is nothing like what I had with my parents who clearly should have been child free
Babies - just hard work, you get nothing back. They need a lot of input with no reward. Now I have children and not babies its definitely more on my level.
However yes I can totally see the appeal in being CF. Id never dream of telling someone their life hasnt started or not fulfilling because they dont have kids. its such an odd take on things.
The majority of my close friends are CF and Id never dream of criticising that choice. I also dont chat to them about my kids unless they ask, why would they be interested in them? Do talk about my dogs though